We all know that men and women view sexuality, intimacy, love and relationships very differently. Our brains simply process these things in a contrasting ways (some would say opposing, but let’s see if we can figure out how to make these opposite truly attract)…
A University of Oxford study found that women tend to immerse themselves in their romantic relationships, while men took a more compartmentalized approach.
What this means is that women more directly tie their own happiness and well being to their intimate relationships, and therefore are more likely to invest greater time and effort on maintaining intimacy with their partner.
This probably comes as NO surprise to you – or me.
Women are biologically wired to be the nurturers. They possess the skills to anticipate the needs of their partners, to try and problem solve and connect emotionally.
Guys lean toward being providers and protectors, sort of like a guardian looking out instead of in.
It’s not that the relationship isn’t important to a man, he is just genetically engineered to exhibit his love by providing for his ‘woman’ in a more material sense. This allows him to maintain an emotional distance and keep a clear mind while working to protect what he views as his responsibility, rather than his ‘spiritually connected soul mate.’
One of the problems that occurs with this male mindset is an increasing tendency to become distant, or even disconnected with his partner. And females, being more naturally sensitive to matters of the heart, may begin to see someone who is supposed the be center of her life as cold, insensitive or even uncommitted.
So if you have been asking yourself, “How can I change my partner to become more involved in our relationship?”
Well, that’s a bit like attempting to change a rock into a tree.
Rather than trying to change your man’s basic operating system, why not try a different approach – and get him to open his heart and adore you the way you think you deserve?
To connect more often on an emotional level and be able to give you what you need from your relationship?
Believe it or not, a man has created a video that provides you with at least some of the direct answers to your question in a simple video. But who better to get into a dude’s head, right?
Carlos Cavallo has created a great resource that will allow you to discover the REAL reason men pull away, and what you can do to open his heart, get him to adore you, and realize you’re his soul mate…
You will see how you can connect with a man on a deeper level, and learn how to make him yours forever.
You owe it to yourself to watch this video!
We just might be able to find a way to make those contrasting male and female brains to work together and make the right connection after all!
Wishing you great success in your better love, better sex and better life!