S0, you’re dating this man, and he treats you unbelievably well.
You share intense CHEMISTRY with him that you can’t remember ever feeling before. You think about him more than you’d like to admit… and you quickly go from hardly knowing him, to feeling like you’ve known him all your life.
You’re amazed that the more you get to know him… the more great things you see and find out about him. And as time goes on, you can’t believe he’s becoming even MORE LOVING, MORE CARING, and MORE AFFECTIONATE. It’s like he’s THE OPPOSITE of the men you’ve dated in the past. He’s open and loving. He doesn’t have any “hang-ups”. He doesn’t act RESISTANT when it comes to sharing love and affection, or talking about the future. And he doesn’t show the FEAR OF COMMITMENT other men do that gets in the way of growing a real and lasting relationship.
But somewhere in the back of your mind, you can’t help but wonder…”Is this too good to be true?”
And as much as you’d like to play it safe, you can’t and it’s too late. You’ve already fallen in love with him. And he’s fallen in love with you. And before you know it, you’re both saying “I love you” at the end of each conversation you have. Soon you’re spending so much time together that you decide to take a big step and move in together.
At first, living together is great and your relationship is better than ever. You’re both excited to be together and to spend each night in each other’s arms.
But just when you feel like this could be the one special relationship that will be truly secure and lasting… something suddenly “shifts”.
The casual, easy-going, affectionate way you and the man in your life had with each other disappears. He stops talking to you the way he used to. He stops sharing his feelings with you. And your intuition tells you that, for some reason, his feelings have changed. All of a sudden he’s DISTANT. All of a sudden he acts irritable and explodes for no reason when you try and talk to him about your relationship or your feelings. All of a sudden he seems more interested in his work, or hanging out with his friends, than spending time with you.
At first you think the change you’re seeing is just part of your imagination.
Or that you’re just being paranoid. But you notice that he really has stopped saying “I love you” and being affectionate with you. In fact, the only time you hear him say “I love you” anymore is after you say it to him and he responds back. The nail in the coffin is when you realize that he’s even stopped initiating things with you physically. And when you drop hints with him that you’d like to be intimate, or you put yourself out there and initiate something… he doesn’t respond.
When did men become the ones who are “too tired” for sex… or just aren’t in the mood? It’s then that you realize that something must be seriously wrong. And you know that if you don’t do something, and talk to him, that your relationship is going to keep slipping away into nothingness.
Recognize anything here from your own life?
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