by Kara Oh
“At least two times this week, interact with a man, any man, and be aware of his soft, protected heart. Notice how this makes you feel about him. Focus on his masculine qualities, but, at the same time, remember what society has done to shut him down.” Men Made Easy
If you’ve ever done a search engine search for love and romance, you’ve probably seen those sites that offer men the opportunity to meet a Russian woman. If you’re curious like me, you’ve probably wondered what the heck that’s about.
Well, recently, I was talking with a girlfriend and she mentioned that one of her dear men friends had just returned from his second trip to Russia. He was there to meet his potential bride and her family. This man is apparently nice looking, successful in his career, a terrific guy. And yet, he feels the need to go to Russia to find a woman to love.
I asked my girlfriend why and he told her that he had no luck finding a woman here. Apparently, American women are too independent, strong-willed, aggressive, demanding, and don’t feel equal to, but superior to men.
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Men have told me this before but somehow, what my friend told me really opened my eyes about how bad it is. I’ve talked to a lot of single men since then, and most of them feel the same way. Of course most men don’t go to Russia to find a woman. They simply keep plugging away, searching for a woman to love.
My girlfriend’s friend , and since I wrote this article, two other men, have all agreed that they have married Russian women because they are more old fashioned in that they want to coddle, wait on, give to, and spoil their man. What man wouldn’t like that?
And the Russian women are excited at the opportunity to be able to move to America, with it’s wealth of products and comforts. . . and these men have reported that they are, indeed, enjoying happy marriages. So it must be working for both sides of the relationships.
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One caveat: Obviously not all Russian women are what these men described, as an angry Russian woman recently pointed out. But this discussion is about women who are on the “Meet Russian Women” websites, and obviously, only from the perspective of what the men have told me.
The main point I wish to make is actually aimed at American women. If you fit the category of “too independent, strong-willed, aggressive, demanding, and don’t feel equal to, but superior to men”, then you might look at how happy you are, or have been, in your romantic relationships with men. It’s a bit like “getting more with honey than with vinegar.”
As I have tried to explain in Men Made Easy, “Feminine Grace gives you more power with men. A woman with Feminine Grace, because she is softer, yet confidently so, is going to have a happier man, which means she is going to get more of what she wants from her romantic relationship. Actually, with most men with whom she interacts.”
From my heart to yours,
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