by Christian Carter
Continued from Part 1.
Have you ever had a hard time getting a man to connect with you and to share with you on an EMOTIONAL level?
Any semi-experienced woman can tell you that touch and affection with a man can INSTANTLY make magical things happen.
It can quickly build a CONNECTION.
But, not any woman can tell you what it is that a woman can DO or SAY to move BEYOND “Physical Attraction” with a man… and move into a closer more “emotional connection”.
In fact, over the years I’ve found that most women have NO CLUE what it is that actually leads a man to feeling close and connected with a woman on a deep EMOTIONAL level. Hint – what works for a man is NOT the same thing that works for YOU and most other women.
And I’ve found something else after observing and studying men, women, dating, relationships, and human behavior for years…
Most women don’t talk much about HOW and WHY men become EMOTIONALLY involved and attached to one woman. Sure, women talk about why men AREN’T “emotionally involved” and how common it is, but they rarely talk about the way a man starts to think and act otherwise. Identifying a problem is NOT the same as knowing the ANSWER to it.
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So, let’s land the plane…
Obviously you have a fantastic, fun, natural style for playfulness, touch, and physical contact. Being this way couldn’t be a bigger asset when it comes to ATTRACTING a man on a physical level and starting the connection. It’s a great “spice” of yours. If you’ve NEVER had a problem in your relationships with men, then I don’t think you need to worry about your physical and playful nature one bit. Don’t worry. Have fun. Let loose.
I take it you’re single right now.
What else are you looking for other than having a great time with a man PHYSICALLY?
Have you ever run up against RESISTANCE with a man where he WITHDREW from you after you were together physically?
You’ve probably been physical, connected, and close with a man before. But, have you been this way with a man before and then things quickly started to change, just as you were about to get closer on an emotional level?
If so, it probably seemed like the guy got “scared off” all of a sudden. And maybe it was then that he said something like, “It’s not that it’s you… you’re great. I’m just not looking for something so serious right now.”
And that was it… The End.
If this has happened to you, then it’s time you started becoming more CONSCIOUS of why just being physical and “free” with a man might not always lead to the relationship you want with a man.
Is it my advice to “keep your hands to yourself” and to “act withdrawn, like a challenge”?
It’s obvious being energetic and playful can work with a man… at least at first when things are all about having fun. But maybe, just maybe, a man has a different experience when he starts becoming physically AND EMOTIONALLY “close” to a woman.
For some men, when they become close with a woman on a physical level, everything is PERFECT. The connection he feels is great. He’ll laugh with her, enjoy being playful, and share affection, even in public. But then, as more emotions start to come into play, things subtly start to change.
And here’s where a few specific FEARS can start to show up that change a man’s entire perspective and the meaning he makes out of being with you and everything you say and do.
Do you think a man sees a woman’s affection and desire for intimacy in public and at home differently when he first meets her versus when he starts to think about what kind of partner he would want if he had a relationhip?
I’ll answer for you here.
Unless the guy is 100% CERTAIN that you’re “the one” and he wants a serious committed relationship from the moment he meets you… then the answer is that a man sees a woman’s affections differently at different times.
If a man is at all UNCERTAIN about whether or not he wants to be with a woman and she is very affectionate, touchy, and playful with him all the time, even in public… then her actions are going to seem “needy”, desperate to win him over, and create an awkward feeling inside him.
Of course, some less desirables are also known to “play along” with affectionate women for the purposes of… you guessed it – sex.
On the other hand, if a man has become CERTAIN that he wants to be with a woman and she is touchy, playful, and intimate with him, then she will seem all the more lovely and magical to be around. In other words, one action can have many different meanings… all depending on the mental and emotional state of the observer.
And here’s something to think about…
Our minds and bodies have an amazing ability to adjust to our environment and the things around us and make even the most intense things become “everyday” things.
If you’ve ever had to spend time near a bad smell, or worked somewhere where there’s been loud noise, you know what I mean. Pain often works the same way too. Eventually your mind and body will find a way to adjust and help you forget about it. When you touch a man all the time, it can start to become a “regular” thing.
By definition, the things that we get a lot of or experience often become “normal”. Touch and affection with a man can work in a similar way.
But, if you leave a man alone for even just a few minutes when you’re out somewhere and go do your own thing for a little while…
Maybe you go talk to a few other people… and then you come back around and share affection again… you’ll be amazed to see that the same affection can get a much different response from a man.
Find the necessary ingredients for a successful long-term relationship in the final part of this article.
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