christian-carter-wideby Christian Carter

If you’ve ever wondered about what draws a man in to connect deeply with a woman early so he can’t help but want to see her again (for more than just a fling) then keep reading…

I’m about to share secrets about meeting and attracting great men that some women know but won’t tell you, or can’t explain.

You’re also about to hear insights into how attraction, dating, and relationships honestly work for men, and what to do about it.

Here we go…

Have you ever noticed that just talking to men for the first time, getting to know each other, and exchanging contact information can turn into some kind of impossible puzzle or “game?”

And the more you think about it or about trying new things, the more you just want to avoid the whole thing?

It’s frustrating and annoying, right? Does it have to be so much work?

Can’t we both just be ourselves and get past all the tricks, games, etc.?

Well, the truth is, it doesn’t have to be such an ordeal and seem like such a game…if, and only if, you know how attraction works for a man.

I’ll repeat that.

It doesn’t have to be a game IF, and only if, you know how attraction works for HIM.

Notice that I didn’t say how attraction works for YOU.

Have you ever thought about how attraction actually works for men, and how it could be different than how it works for you?

Well, then let me ask you…Do you know what makes the difference between a man flirting and perhaps feeling some “physical attraction” for you, and a man that becomes almost instantly connected and attracted to you on a deeper physical AND emotional level?

I’ll give you a minute to think about the question…

Got it yet?

Give up?

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  1. franko on May 14, 2012 at 8:20 am

    lets face it, it is more like the women today that certainly can’t COMMIT. they want as many men at one time to PLEASE them nowadays, so very sad. there are many of us GOOD STRAIGHT INNOCENT MEN that do want COMMITMENT now, but so many women DON’T. i certainly can’t BLAME MYSELF, that is for sure. women have CERTAINLY CHANGED over the years, unlike back then when many of the women were COMMITTED TO THEIR MEN. this explains why men like us can’t meet a GOOD WOMAN TODAY, if there are any LEFT. and now with the LOW LIFE LESBIANS that are out there now, that just makes it a WHOLE LOT WORSE.

  2. Mikey on February 27, 2015 at 3:09 pm

    I meet many women through my work and also through my dance lessons. Over the years its alarming how many of them admitted that they enjoy their freedom and do not want committed relationships. They like the idea of being in a relationship for companionship and sex but with no commitment.

    Years ago it was men that were thought of that way.

  3. Only1barbi on December 29, 2015 at 6:07 pm

    Hmph – women do want commitment…we want a man to be the Man of the house; king of his castle but as soon as you start being nice to them, they run. About to go back to being the girl I used to be that cared not – that was a bitch to men. Seems like I had more marriage proposals back then or men who wanted to stick it out for the long haul.

  4. Sarah on December 29, 2015 at 6:31 pm

    Barbi – I know that Rori Raye talks about this a lot – she says it’s not about being a “bitch” or being “mean” – or even “playing hard to get” – and that being “nice” is crucial to interesting a good man. It’s the part where they can pick up your “vibe” as “needy” – and that vibe runs underneath everything we do and say if that’s what’s going on for us. You sound like a woman with a lot of confidence – and that’s just what you say it is: No matter how much we “care” or love someone, it’s that inner knowing that we’re just fine without them. That’s what they pick up on. and the “nice” then just feels like an honor! Sarah

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