The Question: “I am a single mom, dating a new man, who I do not see nearly enough!
Our schedules for weekend fun do not sync up. Do I just wait till he feels the desire? Sometimes I think he doesn’t ask because he knows my parenting schedule. I have told him I may be able to do something with notice. Advice?”
Everyone knows that a single mom needs a babysitter in order to go out. Everyone.
A man who does not know this is either not being enlightened by a woman, or is playing dumb because his interest is not all there.
And “asking” for anything from a man is the quickest way to dampen his ardor – Which is the reverse of what you want.
(This is all about Feeling Messages, which I go into depth in my Love Scripts program when we talk about “asking for more” – we go through it on video, with women live on stage – and go through nearly every scenario imaginable. Also, all the basics are in the ebook “Have The relationship You Want!”)
Once you learn the basics of Feeling Messages, and practice them, you will able to say things like “It would feel amazing to be with you more, and I feel so frustrated without a babysitter at short notice. What do you think we can do?”
And then, it’s all about your “vibe” – because if you’re radiating an inner vibe of discomfort, anger, subconsciously or knowingly blaming him for “not getting this” – so many other emotional possibilities, that’s what he’ll pick up.
“Siren Mom” – it will solve ALL of those questions and problems.
In her books, CDs, DVDs and seminars, relationship coach Rori Raye teaches women the completely original, simple-to-do and stunningly effective techniques for communication, confidence, and connecting with men that she used to turn her own, now-glorious two-decades-long marriage around. Check out her “Siren Mom” program <=== Here!
I’m a trained relationship coach, a former crisis counselor, and through my eBook, programs and newsletter, I’ve helped thousands of women succeed in love by teaching them the Tools I’ve created and developed with my clients – Tools that work quickly and effortlessly to change a struggling love life into Happy Ever After.