by Virginia Clark
Do you daydream about reconnecting with a boyfriend from the past? Do you search Facebook and the internet searching for any piece of information you can find out about him? Are you obsessed with the idea of meeting him again and rekindling your love?
It can be painful and frustrating to long for a boyfriend who isn’t there with you, and it can make you feel depressed and unhappy with your life.
If this is a problem, my book can help. I have an entire chapter dedicated to helping you make peace with your past so you don’t have to waste any more time on looking back.
Do you know why you’ve begun to fantasize and focus on an old flame?
Is it because you’re simply lonely and feeling discouraged about your chances of meeting a man you can love?
Is it easier to just think about a man rather than going out and finding one?
Or are you going through a hard time with your current boyfriend and you start to worry that he may not be “the one.”
The Past Boyfriend – Through Rose Colored Glasses
When you are unhappy in the present, it’s not uncommon for your mind to begin to reminisce about the good times you’ve had with someone in the past.
It gives your hurting ego a boost as you remember the “good ole days” when you felt loved. You remember the good times and forget the bad. It seems that the same loving feelings are still there and they are attached to that man.
You tell yourself that he was the right man for you all along. You wonder what it would be like to see him again, how he would look, what you would wear, how good it will feel.
Spending your time and energy thinking about someone who in reality you don’t know anymore is one way to AVOID the present moment and your relationship problems.
Ask Yourself the Tough Questions about Your Ex Boyfriend
Ask yourself if you are being realistic in wanting to go back to someone who is now pretty much of a stranger.
If it was meant to be, you would still be with him. There was a reason the two of you didn’t stay together, and if you saw him again, that same reason would probably still be there.
Men will come and go out of your life until you find the one who sticks and he will be the one who is right for you.
And as always, if you need more support on how to get married, or with any relationship problem, take advantage of my 30-minute No Charge Phone Consultation.
I am so happy to be connecting to you here and I welcome your questions and your thoughts.
In the meantime don’t forget, things can change in an instant, don’t lose hope!
Virginia is the real deal. Her story of meeting her man late in life and getting married (she’d never been married before) is amazing, and her ebook “It’s Never Too Late To Marry” will give you the hope you need, step-by-step instructions on how to make it happen for yourself, and the inspiration to transform your love life. Go here to check out Virginia and learn how to have the boyfriend you really want->