by Christian Carter
Ever wonder how in the world you’re supposed to get closer to a man and connect with him, let alone have a real relationship, when he won’t even open up, listen or share what’s going on inside? Like when you seem to be drifting farther and farther apart, and actually talk and share less as time goes on…but the guy doesn’t seem to notice or care?
Where did all the conversation, connection, attraction and passion go to? I mean, is it really a woman’s “job” to be the one who does all the work just to get a man to actually COMMUNICATE and connect?
The answer is NO…. However, the reality is that lots of women have relationships with men that become stuck in a rut this way. But, guess what? It DOESN’T HAVE TO WORK THIS WAY.
Keep reading and you’ll LEARN how men can go from “emotionally unavailable” and withdrawn with a woman, to intimate and connected, WITHOUT you having to do all the work.
But first, let me ask you… Have you ever felt like you just weren’t able to talk to a man about anything “serious” or important in your relationship? At least not without things turning ugly? And, forget about sharing your deeper feelings, questions, or doubts. These would seriously FREAK HIM OUT and push his buttons, right?
What’s with men? Are they completely immature and incapable, or do women share responsibility here too? Good question.
If you’ve ever felt lonely, disconnected, or unappreciated because you didn’t have a “voice” inside your relationship with a man…
Or if a man didn’t ever “see” or “hear” you, even when you couldn’t have been more open, thoughtful and direct, you know that one of the most common, frustrating and destructive things men do with women in relationships is pull away or completely withdraw emotionally.
If you’ve ever had this happen and it dragged on, even just for a few hours or days, then you know it can feel like a slow “emotional death.” Your creativity, energy, and passion all start to wither away and you get drawn into some weird “funk.”
Give me a silent nod if you know what I’m talking about and you’ve experienced the negative effects of “emotional withdrawal” with a man before.
Well, there’s something that lots of women don’t recognize that I want to share with you… It’s strange, kind of bizarre, and hard for lots of women to believe…but it’s something I’ve observed again and again about men.
It’s that when it comes to emotional withdrawal and distance in a relationship, most men DON’T EVEN UNDERSTAND what it is. And therefore they can’t notice it or see it as a problem to address when it comes up.
Ok, let me repeat that. Some men just plain DON’T GET IT. Got it?
Now, why am I telling you this?
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