by TW Jackson (The Magic of Making Up)
From Sarah: Okay, this guy has a shameless sales page (and I’m going to recommend that you go to it anyway- just follow this link->), with an interesting video – and I didn’t want to publish his stuff at first, and then I noticed people all over the place sending me to him and the “Magic of Making Up.” I downloaded his book for myself – and I like it. It’s rough. It’s by a man. It’s easy to get – and yet it tells the truth.
He says a lot of what Rori Raye and Christian Carter say – but he does it in a very different way. And I thought his small articles (and you can’t get them anywhere unless you become an affiliate like we are here) were extremely helpful. The link to get to his page is at the bottom, and I suggest you go and read it (can’t believe I’m saying this) – it’s got a lot of helpful Free information on it. Here’s the article, and I’ll be publishing a lot of them:
Do you want to get ex boyfriend back? Are you reeling from his desire to call the relationship quits? Do you have an empty place in your heart and in your life where he used to be? Here are some tips and techniques to get ex boyfriend back.
First of all, whatever you do, don t chase him. This means lay off the texts, the phone calls, and the stalking. Don t just show up where he happens to be.
This is stalking behavior – and it will just turn him off. He s got to want to come back to you, not the other way around. That s the only way to get ex boyfriend back.
Instead of pursuing him, start to work on you. In order to get ex boyfriend back, you need to start by working to become a more positive person.
AFter a breakup, you probably have so many negative emotions right now – including loss and hurt. You need to purge these feelings (not on HIM) – and get back on a positive note.
One way to do this is to write a long letter to your boyfriend talking about all of the good times you had, all of the hurts you experienced, and all of the things you wished you had told him. Once you have poured your heart out on paper, burn the letter. That s right!
Whatever you do, DON T SEND THE LETTER. Instead, light a match and watch the flame consume the paper. This will give you some closure to that portion of the relationship.
After you have burned the letter, eliminate all negativity from your life. Don t let your girlfriends talk badly about your ex. – This is REALLY important.
And, to the biggest extent possible, be positive about your whole life.
When you do think about the relationship, remember what made it strong. Think about the good times you had.
If you do occasionally talk to your ex, bring up the positive experiences and avoid fighting about the issues that ended it. If you want to get ex boyfriend back, you have to remind him what was good about the relationship.
To this end, focus your energy working on your strengths. For instance, if your boyfriend always praised you on being a good cook, take a gourmet cooking class. Get even better at the things you are good at.
But don t neglect your weaknesses either. If your ex complained about how you were a slob, start picking things around the house. Make an effort to become a better person if you want to get an ex- boyfriend back – and this isn’t for HIM – it’s so YOU can feel better, stronger, be more confident about the things you may have once been insecure about, and be more ATTRACTIVE to ANY man.
Finally, you should be available to him and others. If someone asks you out on a date, accept it. You don t have to be head over heals in love with a guy to go out to dinner with him.
As your ex sees you as a desirable catch, he s going to want to get back into your life. By focusing on the positive and working on your strengths and weaknesses, you are sure to get ex boyfriend back.
I know it seems completely the reverse of what you want to do, here – which is likely to chase him down – but following this procedure is the ONLY way to get him back.
TW Jackson (Travis) go here to read his page and watch the video – very straightforward and simple->