ideal relationshipYou’re crazy about your man and want to make him feel happy with you, that’s why you’re ready to make all the sacrifices to impress him, to show him how much you care about him.

Wrong!

With all this sacrifices to show him your feelings, to keep your relationship as cool as it was at the beginning, you are actually killing the mood, because you’re interrupting and taking over the steps your man needs to take to seduce you.

The more he has to do to earn you, the more valuable you become. That’s why you should let him work for the magical intimacy in your relationship, even if you are hopeless romantic and over-anxious to get that fuzzy feeling in the air.

So, Here Are the Magical Things Your Man Needs to Do, Not You:

1.Surprise you by bringing you lunch and coffee in bed. A man willing to mess around in the kitchen for the woman he loves is a man worth having.  And even if it’s not the tastiest thing in the world, make sure he sees your happy appreciation of his work.

2. Organize a romantic meal; make reservations at a beautiful restaurant and create a romantic atmosphere with candles, roses and slow music.  If your man puts in the effort, make sure he knows this is a night you’ll never forget.

3.Send flowers anytime and anywhere; your man should know that women love flowers.  And if he invests in this romantic gesture, you can answer with the same love he shows you.

4.If he’s good at writing, he better write you a poem or a love letter some time; and then you can write back.

5. If writing’s not his thing, maybe reading is.  Reading romantic poetry in the middle of the living room on a blanket in soft candlelight, wouldn’t that make you happy?  You might have to drop some hints to inspire his imagination in that direction.  so, leave those poetry books around in obvious places!

6. Massages are always magic when done right; and though you may be dying to get your hands on him, let your man take the lead here. And tell him how powerful and seductive and wonderful his hands are!

7. If he can afford it, let him take you on holiday in an exotic place, like a beautiful island, only you two alone, with sunshine and plenty of water, where you will spend a wonderful time together, and will not be disturb by friends, family, relatives. If he’s a little strapped for cash, theres no problem, a simple day trip, planned by him, can cure all your stresses.  I know you ladies LOVE planning, but make sure you leave it all to him and then love all that he’s thrown his effort into.

What Will Happen To Your Man

If your man gets the chance to do these things, and he see how happy he makes you, you will become incredibly precious to him.  And, like magic, he’ll enjoy taking the initiative!

If he thought being steady and uniform in his behavior keeps women happy, he’ll think again. The secrets to intensity and fervor in a relationship lie in being unpredictable. Let your man discover how satisfied he can make you by taking the romantic initiative.

The secret behind creating magic in any dating relationship is generating a healthy blend of contradictions. Acting close as well as distant, being decisive as well as vacillating, getting romantic and suddenly playing aloof, all goes to create those magical moments we all yearn for.

If your man picks up on this, make sure you do too.

Embrace his inspired ideas, go with the flow but vary it up as well.

Don’t always be fawning and cooing over him.

Make your man work for you, and love it when he does!

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3 Comments

  1. Jeff on May 10, 2011 at 11:19 am

    With all due respect this is a load of drivel. I would be THRILLED if my lady friend did any of these things for me. In fact both partners – man or woman, straight or gay – should be doing these things for each other. It is how we show that we care for one another. If it is all left to one person in the relationship it won’t be long before they start to feel like they are being taken advantage of and that is not a happy feeling.



  2. Jeff on May 10, 2011 at 11:20 am

    With all due respect this is a load of drivel. I would be THRILLED if my lady friend did any of these things for me. In fact both partners – man or woman, straight or gay – should be doing these things for each other. It is how we show that we care for one another. If it is all left to one person in the relationship it won’t be long before they start to feel like they are being taken advantage of and that is not a happy feeling.



  3. Sarah on May 21, 2011 at 10:49 pm

    Jeff – So glad to hear from you and get your strong opinion here. I (and all of us here at LoveRomanceRelationship agree with you 100% that love is a two-way street) – and yet – what we meant to address here in this article is that so many women – so many you can’t even imagine, have fallen into the habit of “fawning over” and chasing and overdoing for men in a way that – we KNOW you would be repelled by (even if you liked what she was doing for you, it would make her look needy and clingy to you, and you might keep her around for all she does, but turn away from her romantically). And this, very specific situation is what we’re trying to address here.

    I suppose we’re talking about some kind of “balance” here – and yet, we’ve discovered that where most women find themselves in trouble in relationships is when they feel compelled to “give” too much. Sincerely Sarah for LoveRomanceRelationship



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