The Things Every Guy Wants To Hear. Even Yours

Have you ever noticed how some women seem to attract men without even trying?

by Amy North

It isn’t their looks or their personality that has men hanging on every word.

The truth is there are simple phrases that will make any man go CRAZY for you.

I’m going to share ten phrases with you that are designed to make men go from lukewarm to red hot. If used correctly, he won’t want to leave your sight, or your bed.

The Phrases That Make Men Go Crazy

These phrases may seem simple, but that’s the whole point! It’s not about being clever, it’s about tapping into a man’s primal needs and activating the part of his brain that’s tied to devotion and love.

PHRASE 1… Let’s do it

First off, get your mind out of the gutter. This phrase has nothing to do with sex (necessarily).

It’s about being open to new experiences and excited to make plans with him.

You want him to see you as his friend, his partner in crime and his other half and that means matching his enthusiasm every step of the way.

PHRASE 2… You’re my hero

Guys will never admit this but they all secretly want to be your hero.

This comes back to a man’s desire to be a protector, a provider and a patriarch. Let him know that you see him this way and he’ll rise to the occasion.

Don’t use this one without a reason but something as simple as picking you up from work is enough to let him know that he’s your knight in shining armor.

PHRASE 3… I like that we don’t have to fill every silence

People have a tendency to perceive silence as a sign that something is going wrong in a relationship, especially early on.

Let him know that you’re comfortable with just being with him.

You don’t feel the need to always be chatting. You can just appreciate his presence.

This is an effective way to take the pressure off and calm unspoken anxiety in both of you.

PHRASE 4… Could you help me with this?

This phrase lets him actually be your hero. It’s important to be independent but it’s vital to show him that you need his help once in awhile.

Whether it’s opening a tough jar or setting up your TV, men like to feel powerful and necessary.

There’s no shame in stroking his ego. It’s actually one of my favorite ways to attract men instantly.

PHRASE 5… Have fun with your friends

In my dealings with male clients I find that one of their biggest complaints is conflict between their relationship and their friendships.

You need him to know that you’re happy when he’s happy.

Don’t resent him for having fun with his friends–that’s one of the biggest relationship killers. Let him know that you not only approve but you’re invested in his happiness, he’ll be invested in yours.

PHRASE 6… Remember when…

Bringing up times you’ve spent together is essential to building a long lasting relationship. Not only does it show him you value the time you spend together but reminiscing is a great way to build strong bonds.

Phrases that make men go crazy for you do so because they help shape the narrative of your relationship. Don’t let the good times be forgotten.

PHRASE 7… I like you

A simple phrase that often goes unsaid. There are many ways to say this one so don’t hold back. I find that many women, early in relationships, are so focused on playing it cool that they come across as cold.

Playing hard to get is important but it needs to be balanced with a genuine warmth and desire. Men want to be wanted too!

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PHRASE 8… You’re so sexy

Handsome, cute, hot, there are many ways to compliment your man. But above all others he needs to know that just the sight of him turns you on. Save this one for a choice moment.

I find that men like to hear it the most after they’ve just been doing something particularly manly.

If you tell him how sexy he looks when he’s chopping wood, you’ll activate the hunter/gatherer area of his brain and he’ll be yours forever.

PHRASE 9… I was wrong

Conflict is essential to a healthy relationship. It’s how we deal with that conflict that determines whether it drives us apart or brings us together. You need to be able and willing to admit when you were at fault.

Don’t always take the blame but if you overreacted or got it wrong then you need to be able to accept blame in the situation.

If he sees that you recognize your mistake, this will allow him to be open and honest with you. Don’t let this one go unsaid.

PHRASE 10… I need a hug

The power of this phrase is that it works almost no matter where you are in your relationship, even if you’re just friends. It even works as a text message, to build some tension.

A 2014 study in The Journal Psychological Science shows that hugging increases trust and causes your brain to release the neurochemical oxytocin that has a bonding effect.

Whether he knows it or not, a hug can instantly bond you to him.

It only takes one hug to connect you two and this helps cement you as a source of comfort and happiness in his mind.

Amy North is a women’s relationship coach and best-selling author from Vancouver, Canada, with a degree in Social Psychology. Her programs, including Text Chemistry and The Devotion System have helped dozens of women attract and keep the right guy, or improve the relationship they already have. “As your relationship coach I can be your guru, supporter, challenger, and motivator. I’ll give you the push to get going, and the tools to keep you on track. Your interests will be my interests, and I won’t judge, but I will help.”

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