carol.jpgby Carol Allen

If you’ve heard anything about astrology, then you know there are certain signs that are supposed to go together for romantic happiness, and certain ones that are NOT.

As an astrologer, one of the most common questions I hear is, “What’s the BEST sign for me?”

My answer?


There’s no such thing…

So – go out with anyone you like, and don’t worry about their sign…

This always completely SHOCKS people.

How can this be??

You can have a fabulous life with a man of ANY sign – no matter what sign you are.

It’s not a man’s Sun sign – or yours – that matters.

There’s something MUCH MORE important.

And that’s his Moon sign, but not just which of the twelve signs he was born under – which of the twenty-seven original signs of Vedic astrology…

These signs are so much more detailed and nuanced than the traditional twelve signs, and will tell you FAR more about a man than his “normal”

One of the reasons I wrote my eBook, “Love Is in the Stars” is I was sooo frustrated that people didn’t know the truth about astrology.

So I tackle all the main myths in the field, and tell you what’s REALLY going on.

Especially as it all relates to the most important topic of all – that’s right, LOVE.

And the BIGGEST lie in all of astrology, is that the sign of a man is important in your being able to be with him or not.

If you believe in that, then I have some lovely swampland you may be interested in.

Okay, I’m being harsh…

Of COURSE you believe in that hooey. (Or is it hokum?)

It’s EVERYWHERE. Books, newspapers, magazines, and well-meaning but ill-informed astrologers promote this idea constantly.


And it’s a shame. Because it’s not a man’s Sun sign – or even your own – that matters in relationships.

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There are signs WITHIN the signs, smaller clusters of stars, that are SO powerful in looking at the issue of love.

And that man you think is all wrong for you just might have been born in the VERY best of those signs for you.

And by not being OPEN to men of the “supposed” wrong signs, you just might be missing out on Mr. Right.

See the email from one of my readers below to understand what I’m talking about:

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My sign is Aquarius and I met a Scorpio male that I really like but all I ever read about is that we won’t make it. How could I feel the way that I do about this man if we couldn’t make it? I don’t know if I should tell him or not that I am interested in being more than just friends.
Can you help me?


Oh, Janice – YES, I can help you.

In fact, I am uniquely qualified in all the world to help you…

You see, not only am I a professional astrologer of almost two decades, I am a happily married Aquarius woman.

And, it just so happens that (GASP, CHOKE, HOLD ONTO YOUR HAT) my husband is a Scorpio.

(These are our signs in Western astrology, by the way – not in Vedic astrology…)

And guess what? He ROCKS and our relation- ship is fantastic!

Why? Because of what really matters – he’s THE PERFECT Moon sign, and sub-sign for me!

In fact, we share so many beautiful links and connections between our Moon signs that we feel a great deal of affinity, comfort, and peace of mind with each other.

I was fortunate to start studying Vedic astrology soon after meeting him.

I got another such email on the VERY same day…

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Hi Carol,
How are you? I would really, really like you to answer my question…. In any astrology book that I read, it says that Gemini and Scorpio should not be together, and do not make a good union, and time and again it says sex, love, marriage, basically everything, will not be good. But I have met the most amazing Scorpio that seems to really like me. I would love to love him, but have this at the back of my mind all the time… Is there any hope for us?? Or should I nip it in the bud now?


Man, these Scorpios aren’t supposed to get along with anyone from the sound of things!
Lucky for my husband I did him a favor and married him anyway… haha.

Okay, so, as you can probably guess, I’d tell Eileen the EXACT SAME THING I told Janice.

We fabulous AIR SIGN babes can be with Scorpios – IF his Moon constellation goes with ours.

So, Eileen, for golly’s sake – find out your Moon constellations, and if you get the celestial “thumbs up” then do NOT “nip it in the bud.”

It’s a blessing and gift to find a good man you have a WOW connection with, so you owe it to yourself to find out.

Can you tell this issue makes me super passionate???

See a cool letter from another astrologer on the subject:

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Dear Carol,
Yes, I totally agree. The zodiac signs that are usually given whether they are in the newspaper, from astrologers or from other sources are usually all wrong. They are usually meant well but mostly not accurate for most people.
When people fall in love, and as unpredictable as love is, it is usually blind .
I am so glad that someone as you has finally come to tell the truth for zodiac signs. A few of us are afraid to do as you have done.
Thank You.

She was so afraid, in fact, that she didn’t give her name…

Thanks for a great letter – whoever you are.

And, yet another Air sign gal writes…

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Your information is AMAZING! It makes a lot of sense to me! But I do have one little question. As I am an Aquarius and my boyfriend is an Aries.
We fight pretty often about the littlest things and I feel like I am the cause of it because of my Aquarian nature of being stubborn. Where could I go to, to find out how to see if we are compatible? Or to see how to work out our problems?
Thank you.


Now, if Liz was paying attention to Sun signs and the “word on the street” about astrology, then she would know that Aquarius and Aries are supposed to go GREAT together.

But these two fight constantly – about “the littlest things…”

I’d love to say we can blame that entirely on her being an Aquarius, but there’s something else going on here.

Liz fights with men.

And that doesn’t work with ANY man of ANY sign… no matter how compatible they may be.

In fact, studies show that even in the happiest couples, anger leads to more anger…

Fighting leads to more fighting…

And loving kindness leads to more loving kindness…

Liz – my advice? STOP FIGHTING.


Quit being so reactive and don’t let him make you snappy, no matter what he does.

Your communication skills need a serious upgrade.

Here’s the thing – I’ve given far too many readings to clients involved with good men with whom they shared good compatibility but still ended up breaking up or divorcing anyway – and NOT because of astrology, but because of something just as important – not knowing how to lead the way to love.

So, do something different, Liz. Life’s too short to fight all the time, and love is too precious and fragile to stand up to petty arguments.

Women are SIX TIMES as verbally combative as men, so if this is going to ever change, I’m guessing it’s going to have to be up to you.

If anyone can improve their communication with a man, it’s a smart Aquarius woman! We’re geniuses… :)

But then again, you know how angry those Aries men can be…


Okay, it’s time for me to go off to sleep with my lucky Scorpio husband now, so no more lecturing.

So, as ever, may God and his planets and stars shower you with love!

Carol Allen

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1 Comment

  1. dina on January 28, 2012 at 9:43 am

    hi…i m a libra and my boyfriend is a leo.He left me all of a sudden after four weeks of dating me.As long as i was with him, our relationship had a degree of purity and then he decided to suddenly move on in life.After that whenever i contacted him, he was rude and insulted me, abused our relationship.Actually, even while we were in a relationship, he abused our relationship by telling me about his sexual attraction to other women.As his friendship with one such woman grew, he left me even though he knew she was in a committed relationship.I still love him and feel I have been wronged.

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