by Sarah, Editor for LoveRomanceRelationship
Texting is romantic?
It can save your relationship?
Okay – it sounds so farfetched, because we women HATE all that texting and long for his actual VOICE.
But – Michael Fiore has come up with an amazing, feminine way of using text messages to literally get a guy eating out of your hand.
It doesn’t matter if you’re single, dating, in a relationship or married.
You can ignite a spark, turn him on physically – and EMOTIONALLY – with a well-thought-out, well-delivered text message.
To Be Successful With This Texting Technique, It’s Critical To Have An Understanding Of The Male Mind.
Men work very differently from us women.
I know you’ve heard this: Men are visual. Well, we’re “visual,” too – just not to the same intensity and, it seems exclusivity.
You have to be able to paint pictures to make a man really “see” you – and if you do it right, you can get him actually addicted to you.
If you are new to dating a man, you’ll want to start slow. Start “subtle.”
Michael’s raunchier, more direct scripts for you take a bit of “working-in” – so if you’re in any kind of relationship, those will get you HUGE rewards.
If this is a guy you are just dating, the techniques will vary from those if your relationship is established mainly because – in the beginning it’s best not to initiate with a man.
This means you’ll be texting in RESPONSE to HIS texts.
By not initiating with the man you’re taking care to not accidentally push him away by even SEEMING like you’re chasing him.
Though men are getting used to women taking the lead – that doesn’t mean they like it. In fact – you may find men taking ADVANTAGE of you BECAUSE you’re taking the lead. A man who’s comfortable with that will just sit back and let you do everything, and then not come through emotionally when you need him to.
By letting him lead, you stand out from the rest – and this alone can make him addicted.
Responding is an art, and Michael’s book “Text The Romance Back” gives you the lessons on how to do it, exact scripts for you to use (I’ve tried it – and it’s really just amazing).
If you’re already in a relationship, you can create more visual pictures for the man and be more to the point – and still it’s not something you want to do everyday.
Being Predictable With Texting Will Not Make Him Addicted To You. Being Unpredictable Will.
If you’re always texting him mundane things like when is he coming home or can he stop at the store, toss in a message out of the blue with some sexual play to it.
And do it occasionally – not daily.
You can start with something as simple as “I can’t stop thinking about you today.”
Then he’ll ask “Why?” – and then you can refer to something the two of you recently did in the bedroom.
He’ll instantly remember that time and start thinking about it and you.
To get a man addicted to you, you create positive triggers to positive things you’ve shared.
This builds an emotional connection on top of the physical connection!
This is why texting is so great and works so well.
Actually – your ring tone, your name on his cell screen become triggers to him!
They trigger feelings of passion, and warm fuzzy feelings, too.
When we have addictions in our lives, we think about those things often.
This is what you want to do with your texts. Get him thinking about you. (Not about you and what’s for dinner – that might be a warm fuzzy connection – but it doesn’t create an ADDICTIVE thought.
After awhile – that kind of “domesticity” can start to feel “boring” to him, and he’ll start to take it for granted. (The truth is that domesticity is GREAT, and men LOVE it, and it creates emotional connection – but if you’re wanting to rekindle a real passion – domesticity is the last thing you want to focus on.
In fact – you want to focus on being “new” – on new and different things to focus on.
For an incredible assortment of full texting scripts and great romantic texting ideas to try with a man, you’ll really want to check Michael out (I immediately downloaded Text The Romance Back and loved it so much – that’s why I’m recommending it here…) Go here to discover how you can nearly instantly create way more romance with a man just by texting->
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