Countless dating sites online promise to help you find your perfect match. by Susie and Otto Collins The one you can spend the rest of your life with. The idea behind these dating services is usually that you fill out a questionnaire and complete a profile with information about yourself– your references, dislikes, and other…

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by Susie Collins Have you ever said or done something and immediately knew it was the wrong thing to do for your relationship? Something that you said or did that pushed your partner away from you instead of bringing him closer–which is the exact opposite of what you wanted? Well that’s what I did the…

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by Susie Collins The other day I was with a group of women and a common theme and a desire kept coming up that you might relate to… These women (including me) feel that especially right now during the holidays that they easily get overwhelmed with the “doing.” They find that they aren’t really “present” with the ones they love…

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by Susie and Otto Collins People often ask us– “How do you keep passion and connection alive in a relationship that isn’t “new” anymore?” This is a great question and we think that it all starts with your intentions. In our relationship, it’s our intention to keep our relationship strong, vital alive and growing. It isn’t always easy. But,…

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by Orna and Matthew Walters This week’s relationship question comes from Kimmy: “Hi Orna and Mathew, I have a question I hope you can help with. I’ve been reading the Love notes and they are very helpful. I’ve noticed something that I think is a problem in my relationships. I can give easily to the…

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by Susie and Otto Collins There are four words that almost NO one actually says out loud but millions of men and women sure think this about their spouse or partner during a relationship. What’s underneath these four words can literally suck the life and passion out of an otherwise good relationship. That’s why we…

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by Susie and Otto Collins Who’s the “problem” in your relationship? Is it you? Your partner? Your in-laws? Something or someone else? If you’re like most people, your answer about who the problem is, is probably pretty quick and definite… When you’re having challenges in your relationship or marriage, it’s pretty easy to think the…

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by Susie Collins While I was working out at the gym the other day, I watched the 2008 musical “Mama Mia” movie for the fourth time. I love the music, I love the story and apparently so do other people because the exercise room was packed with men and women. Maybe because Otto and I…

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by Susie and Otto Collins Whether you’re single, married, or in a committed relationship… The fact is–most of us have done our share of flirting (even though we may not have called it that) in our lives. Flirting can be a good thing for a relationship and yet… Flirting is one of the biggest challenges…

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by Susie and Otto Collins Your life and relationship can be so incredible, and yet at times, so frustrating. Sometimes we’re faced with situations that we’re really not so sure how to handle but we do the best we can. We face all kinds of temptations in our lives and our relationships on a daily…

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