Did you hear these words from your partner?  “I love you, but I’m not IN LOVE with you?” What does that statement mean? Hi. I’m Mort Fertel, author of Marriage Fitness. A person who says, “I love you, but I’m not IN LOVE with you,” is making a distinction between 2 different feelings. But NEITHER…

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Has your relationship been going through a long dry spell in the bedroom department? Maybe you’re beginning to question your drive, your attractiveness, maybe even the worth of the relationship itself… These are the two most common mistakes women make in sexless marriages and relationships: 1. You think your marriage or relationship turned sexless because of…

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by Kate Dixon I hope you’re feeling well and that you’re ready to take the next step to heal your relationship and get the sex back into it. Kate Dixon here with the 2nd lesson of the Get Him In The Mood mini-course. If you’ve read lesson #1, you realize that the reason why your…

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Today’s ‘modernistic’ societies have opened the doors to a totally different perception about relationships, particularly the marital relationship. New standards of “living together”, divorce, and remarriages have created an appealing option for people who no longer want to take the ‘extra mile’ of saving their relationship, thus the uncontrolled destruction of what could salvaged and…

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The beginning of a marriage can seem like a magical time, but it can also be a time where you can easily start building resentments and distrust if you are not careful. Here are a few points to keep in mind so you can keep your new marriage feeling for a long time to come.…

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A common expression is “I’ll meet you halfway,” and we often take that attitude into our marriage. I hear frequent complaints from couples in trouble that their partner isn’t pulling their fair weight, that one is giving more than the other. Whoever determined that life is a 50-50 proposition? Some give more than others. Some…

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by Kate Dixon One of the hardest things which people who live in a sexless marriage need to do is to talk with their spouse openly and constructively about how their marriage is doing. This is a highly embarrassing and painful subject and it’s easy to talk about it in the wrong way so that your partner will shut you out or…

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by Kate Dixon One-third of all marriages are battling some or the other type of sexual problems; if the passion in your marriage has dried up suddenly, for whatever reasons, you must be experiencing an overriding desire to play the blame game. If your spouse does not respond to your need for physical expression of…

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by Amy Waterman A few weeks ago, we received an email from Claire, a freelance consultant from Ohio, who told us that her marriage was in bad shape. She says: “Last month, my husband and I had a huge meltdown in the car while we were on an out-of-town trip. Apparently, he’s been harboring a…

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by Amy Waterman There are numerous reasons why a once committed marriage would degenerate to one partner asking for a divorce. It could have been: – an affair – having been separated by a long distance for lengths of time – conflict – behavioral issues or psychological problems of one spouse – even unmanaged addictions.…

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