by Jeffrey Levine When challenges pop up, many of us launch into our position – determined to make sure our partner knows that WE have the answer. If you do this with your husband, you’ve probably noticed that he stops listening – first, preparing to defend himself, and second, trying to figure out a way…

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by Anthony Kane There is an old fable whose origins I forget which talks about a contest between the Sun and the Wind to see who is stronger. In order to settle the debate they identify a man who is walking on the street and make a contest to see who can get him to…

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