I know. It’s hard and painful to accept this. But, don’t you think that it’s better to be told the ugly, cruel truth than to be comforted with sugar-coated lies? by Riley Cooper If he wanted to be with you, he’d make that happen. He’d be with you. Since although facing the harsh truth is…

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Relationships end for a lot of reasons. And they can drag on for a while, as we preserve hope. Many of us find it difficult to move forward after such an upheaval. Especially if we keep thinking about our exes and what was and what could have been. So how do you know if you…

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Everyday I receive emails asking why an ex is not speaking or is not exactly warm when they do speak. My first thought is – “are you pushing them away?” I cover 10 ways you might be pushing your ex away in The Biggest Breakup Mistakes series. And here’s one more way you might be…

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by Orna and Matthew Walters This week’s question comes from Lisa about her ex: “Dear Orna and Matthew, I hope you can help me. My ex wants to get back together with me. We’ve been broken up for 3 months and I’ve been focusing on myself, on my own healing. I’m starting to feel really…

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by Kara Oh A women wrote to me today asking for some guidance about her ex. She said she was having difficulty moving on after breaking up with her boyfriend, even though the relationship wasn’t working. One thing I know about moving on is that you can’t remove something without putting something else in it’s…

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by Virginia Clark Do you daydream about reconnecting with a boyfriend from the past? Do you search Facebook and the internet searching for any piece of information you can find out about him? Are you obsessed with the idea of meeting him again and rekindling your love? It can be painful and frustrating to long…

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by Kara Oh What do you do to keep your composure when you know you’re going to an event where you’ll run into your ex? I get this question a lot and here’s what I’d do if I was in the same situation: Imagine he’s got on some stupid outfit, like a clown suit, or…

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From time to time we all think about the good old days with an ex-boyfriend, and how things could have turned out differently for that relationship. In some situations, with a really great guy, it’s actually worth not just thinking about it, and actually getting out and doing something positive to make it happen. First…

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by Orna and Matthew Walters “Dear Orna and Matthew, 10 yrs. ago I broke up my relationship with a guy who I had been really good friends with a year prior to us deciding to date. He is very shy and is a very committed Christian. For a while I thought their was a problem…

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