by Bobbi Palmer This week I spoke with my client, “Sue,” who recently entered the online dating world. Right off the bat she had scoped out a profile she really liked and emailed him. He seemed interested, attentive and pretty fabulous on paper. The next thing you know…she had a date! When they met in…

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by Bobbi Palmer Rejection. It’s probably the #1 fear we have and the #1 reason I hear why otherwise accomplished, independent, strong women opt-out, give up on dating and get mad. When we finally meet a man we’re interested in and realize that he doesn’t share that interest, it can really feel icky. I use…

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by Bobbi Palmer I found love at age 47. That means I spent about 30 years flailing away at dating before I met and married my spectacular man. I feel special and loved every single day, and our time together has been the best of my life. How did I do this? In my early…

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by Bobbi Palmer As I was writing about a dinner party thing something occurred to me: it will help you hang out with some happy couples! I can hear your objections already: I don’t know any happy couples! Nonsense. Now that I’m married I see fantastic couples (and loving, fabulous men) everywhere. Apparently I didn’t…

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by Bobbi Palmer I became a first time bride at age 47, and Larry and I are about to celebrate our seven year anniversary. (No itching taking place, btw.) I’ve helped countless women do what I did, and I’m committed to helping YOU find lasting love. Regardless of your age, your dress size or how…

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by Bobbi Palmer Are you wondering why you’re still waiting to here from him after the first or second date? A single man I know once said: If a woman I’m interested in doesn’t seem to love herself, why should I love her…and trying to convince her that she’s great would be too f—ing exhausting.…

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by Bobbi Palmer Well..the holidays are here. I wanted you to know that I am thinking about you and working through the New Year creating all kinds of ways to help you feel wonderful and find the right man. For now, I’m sending my love and support and 53 ways to bring more happiness and…

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by Bobbi Palmer In the past couple weeks I’ve had two spectacular clients realize they’re falling in love with the men they are dating. I’m thrilled for them because each of their guys is one of The Good Guys. They are confident, smart and emotionally generous, and they are seriously looking for life partners. These…

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by Bobbi Palmer No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and would be interested in going out with you” way is to flirt. When I suggest that to the over-40 women in my dating workshops and coaching programs, I can see them cringe. Most of…

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by Bobbi Palmer The first 10 minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is even going to happen. And let’s face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story until I learned about (what I now call) “Date Waste.” Date waste is when a date is…

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