A Surprising Solution To Your Marital Problems

If you’re reading an article about how to improve your marriage, you’re probably expecting to learn problem-solving strategies, communication techniques, and insights about gender differences. by Mort Fertel Do I have a SURPRISE for you! The key to renewing your marriage is none of those things. How do I know this? Because I experienced it!…

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It’s Not Too Late To Fix Your Relationship

Dating has changed. So has marriage and all the other forms of relationships. Today, more and more people are living by themselves. People will marry, break up and remarry, just to repeat the cycle of miserable breakups! You could be one of them. Or maybe it just hasn’t happened yet, but you’ve seen some of…

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4 Clear Signs That a Relationship Can Last

One set of variables determines whether a marriage may succeed or fail. by John Gottman, Ph.D., and Julie Schwartz Gottman Ph.D. After a decade of analyzing data from the Love Lab, we discovered that one set of variables determined whether a marriage would succeed or fail: Were the couples being positive or negative during the interview? There…

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Do You Need To Be Needed?

by Orna and Matthew Walters This week’s relationship question comes from Kimmy: “Hi Orna and Mathew, I have a question I hope you can help with. I’ve been reading the Love notes and they are very helpful. I’ve noticed something that I think is a problem in my relationships. I can give easily to the…

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4 Little Words That Silently Kill Relationships – (Do You Say Them?)

by Susie and Otto Collins There are four words that almost NO one actually says out loud but millions of men and women sure think this about their spouse or partner during a relationship. What’s underneath these four words can literally suck the life and passion out of an otherwise good relationship. That’s why we…

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Are You Always Stuck With The Same Kind Of Man?

This week’s question comes from Judy: “Hi Orna and Matthew, You are always talking about a creating a conscious relationship. I want that! But have no idea what to do to get it. I think I’m a conscious person but seem to be stuck with the same type of guys over and over again. Please…

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Who’s To Blame For This Relationship Problem?

by Susie and Otto Collins Who’s the “problem” in your relationship? Is it you? Your partner? Your in-laws? Something or someone else? If you’re like most people, your answer about who the problem is, is probably pretty quick and definite… When you’re having challenges in your relationship or marriage, it’s pretty easy to think the…

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5 Relationship Tricks That Make Love Stick

by Susie and Otto Collins The other day, a man asked us for more information about our book and audio program “Should You Stay or Should You go?” As we talked to him, he told us that he really didn’t want to leave his relationship but he was having a difficult time finding ways to…

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Should You Stay In Your Relationship – Or Should You Go?

by Susie and Otto Collins We’ve been busy, but not too busy to stop thinking about how we can help you create the best relationship possible and how we can help you have more love in your life. As we think about the hundreds and hundreds of important relationship questions we’ve gotten over the years,…

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