When You Should Break Up with a Guy (Hint: NOW May Be a Good Idea!)

This piece, simply called “When to Walk Away From a Bad Relationship,” by Sophia Benoit from GQ, is something I wholeheartedly endorse as one of the few dating coaches who believe it’s better to find an easy relationship than it is to double down on fixing a broken one. by Evan Marc Katz Money quote:…

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Are You “Co-Dependent” By Giving Him Too Much?

Co-dependency is a term heard commonly these days. Often, it involves a partner with substance abuse problems. A codependent relationship is defined by the codependent who, in the case of alcoholics, is the partner that tries to save the alcoholic from alcohol and themselves. However a codependent relationship need not be confined to that kind…

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Are You With A Toxic Or Commitment-Phobic Man?

by Dominique How can you tell if you’re in a relationship with a toxic man? And this could include a commitment phobic man as well. One may sound worse than the other, but both types have deeper issues, issues they cling to desperately, issues which preclude connection and intimacy. How can you separate out what…

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Your Turn – Does It Feel Like He Doesn’t Care?

by Orna and Matthew Walters This week’s relationship question comes from Cindy: “Dear Orna and Matthew, I hope you can give an insight into whether my relationship is worth hanging in there and keep trying to be understanding, loving, etc. First of all , I am disabled because of a car accident 4 yrs ago. Have a…

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Why Is He So Dense And Unfeeling?

by Rori Raye Here’s a letter from Sara, who’s in a relationship with a very “toxic man” – and though she’s “beating her head against a wall” trying to figure out what to do – there may be some simple answers for her: “Rori, well this last month has been my own personal hell. My…

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More About Anger And Addiction In Your Relationship

by Dominique Last article, I opened up the topics of anger and addiction inside a relationship and outside of it, how they are not necessarily connected though they certainly can be, how this applies to my reader as well as how it can apply to so many others. Though the cast of characters and the…

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Are You Stuck in the Love Trap of “Wishful Hoping”?

by Virginia Feingold Clark When I was a single woman, one of my biggest obstacles to finding a husband was my habit of “wishful hoping.” I am long past that now, but as a coach I find “wishful hoping” is probably one of the key factors that make finding your true love take so long.…

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What To Do If He’s Obsessing Over “Other Women”

by Dominique From Cheryl: “I have been in this relationship about a year and a half. He is very sweet to me and there has been mention of getting married. But…I think he is obsessed with beautiful famous women. He has posters in his bedroom like a teenage boy. There is a picture of Natalie…

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Is He Worth It For A Relationship?

by Michael Fiore Hey, it’s Mike Fiore . . . Hope you had a great weekend. It was my 2 year relationship anniversary with my (awesome) girlfriend this weekend, so I spent some time practicing what I preach and making sure she knows just how sexy and incredible I actually find her. Anyway, today’s post…

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