by Jeffrey Levine I got to thinking about what we choose to pay attention to – and how it affects our relationships. Especially how what we pay attention to over the long-term affects a marriage, where it’s so easy to “let things slide.” While we spend our time paying attention to something, there are always…

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by Jeffrey Levine I recently read a book called “A Whole New Mind – Why Right-Brainers Will Rule The Future,” and as “academic” as it might sound – there’s a principle here that can make a huge difference in your marriage. The principle is about the power of “story” – how telling a story enables…

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by Jeffrey Levine When challenges pop up, many of us launch into our position – determined to make sure our partner knows that WE have the answer. If you do this with your husband, you’ve probably noticed that he stops listening – first, preparing to defend himself, and second, trying to figure out a way…

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