Sometimes, I have a couple in my office, telling me how desperate they are to save their marriage — but when I watch them, I am at a loss for why they would want to. by Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. They constantly argue and bicker. One says up, the other says down. One says “blue,”…

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When’s the last time you got angry with your guy? by Jeffrey Levine How did it go? If you’re like many of us, expressing your anger doesn’t always lead to more closeness and loving feelings. Why is that? It’s because we don’t realize what our anger is telling us or how to express it in…

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Tons of women do this one thing and it must leave them feeling awful…I wonder if you do it too? I’m talking about women who hide their true feelings from a man and fear sharing their desire for a closer relationship and for love. Ever felt this way? It happens when you won’t communicate directly…

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Have you ever been frustrated when you talk to your guy about something that’s really important to you?  by Jeffrey Levine Do you find yourself arguing with him?  Is he dismissive or condescending? Recently, a woman wrote to me about how each time she and her boyfriend get into a discussion about challenges in their…

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