Relationship Turnaround Is A Real Thing

Several clients over the last few months are experiencing similar scenarios – ones their girlfriends and therapists said was impossible, that they should leave their men, etc….

by Rori Raye

Yet – I can hear in their frustration and anger that they still love and WANT these men.

The thing is – men are easily intimidated…And not by what we THINK they’re intimidated by…

It has nothing to do with what we normally think of as “power” – such as huge success in the world.

It’s the “vibe” they pick up on from us.

A reasonably healthy man wants to be loved and appreciated, and if what he feels from us is anger, disgust, disappointment, blame, judgment of any kind – he’ll pull away.

It doesn’t matter if we’re “right” – in fact, it just makes it all worse for him.

So – if we want a man, and we want him to feel good and so step up and give US everything we want, we have to literally “change our tune.”

This, again, has nothing to do with reducing the glow of our power.

I consider myself a powerful woman, and I’ve learned to speak “plainly” over these last 20 years.

I want to make my husband feel as good as I want him to make ME feel.

Therefore, It does none of us any good to “rail” against a man or anyone else.

If this is mostly what we feel ourselves doing, and want to do, then that’s why everyone tells us to leave – including him!

And yet, we don’t WANT to leave.

There’s another way. I call it “The Third Way” – and I teach my coaches how to coach you through it.

So – in my world, if you don’t want to leave, the only alternative you have is to find this new, Modern Siren way of being and speaking that will reel him in, not push him away.

He’s human. He’s him.

He doesn’t have the finesse and consciousness that you, as a woman, do.

He needs to be approached in a completely different way.

These clients were considered – by themselves (not by me…) – to be angry, mean, and actually nasty to their men in reaction to their pain, frustration and disappointment.

We turned that around.

It wasn’t deception or demureness we were going for – it was “real.”

And for these women – and perhaps for you – the real is that they WANTED their men!

In her books, CDs, DVDs and seminars, relationship coach Rori Raye teaches women the completely original, simple-to-do and stunningly effective techniques for communication, confidence, and connecting with men that she used to turn her own, now-glorious two-decades-long marriage around. I’m a trained relationship coach, a former crisis counselor, and through my eBook, programs and newsletter, I’ve helped thousands of women succeed in love by teaching them the Tools I’ve created and developed with my clients – Tools that work quickly and effortlessly to change a struggling love life into Happy Ever After. If you’re not familiar with Rori’s work, please do yourself a favor and get her book “Have The Relationship You Want.” It will shift everything, almost overnight.

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