Are there any good men out there who appreciate a woman who knows herself?
When a man goes out with a woman, he’s not as concerned with whether she’s articulate and on track to make partner at the law firm. That’s what women want in men and they assume it’s of equal importance to them.
It’s generally not.
Men DO value intelligence, but they also want from their girlfriend what they CAN’T get from their business associates.
Warmth, affection, nurturing, thoughtfulness.
If he finds himself constantly hearing all the things he needs to change, he may just determine that he wants a bright woman who is less challenging. Not a Stepford Wife. Not a bimbo. Not a maid. Just someone who makes his life EASIER and more pleasant.
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This can be a real dilemma.
You’re undoubtedly a great catch.
You are a go-getter and worthy of everyone’s respect.
But if that go-getter side ends up emasculating your man, or makes him feel insignificant, or second-guessed, he’s not really getting what he wants out of a partner.
Men want to feel masculine. We want to feel needed.
This doesn’t mean you should play dumb, or be weak and needy. It might mean, however, turning off some of the things that make you “successful” at work.
This is a bitter pill to swallow, perhaps even a double standard. Still, it doesn’t change the fact that “hard-driving, opinionated, and meticulous” are not on most men’s lists of ideal feminine traits.
While there’s nothing wrong with these qualities, if it also coincides with being difficult, dating might be a long, tough road for you.
For a deeper understanding of what qualities you should be looking for in a man, we invite you to check out “Why He Disappeared — the Smart, Strong, Successful Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever”.
Note from Erin: This book is from Evan Marc Katz. He’s an expert in the field and there is tons of great information in this book. We highly recommend it.