by Christian Carter
Ever feel like you’d have less real “connection” or intimacy with a man if you didn’t try so hard to keep your relationship “alive”?
And, that the man you’re with might not even notice, let alone know how to help you both grow and change together when something is “off” in your relationship?
Are men really so different that they don’t think about or notice problems in your relationship?
Or is something worse going on here where a man doesn’t want the relationship to go anywhere and has given up on it and you?
Have you ever had the sudden realization that if it wasn’t for YOUR patience, caring and the attention you pay to him and your relationship, that you’d just be drifting apart from each other?
That you’d never grow closer… never get to know each other on a deeper level… and never become MORE COMMITTED if it wasn’t for what YOU insist on and struggle to create?
Do you ever wonder why it can seem like a man just doesn’t care about your relationship and where it’s headed… even though you know that somewhere deep down he does love and care about you?
Well, there’s a reason why these things are so common with men in relationships… and why they can be so frustrating to deal with and get past as a woman.
The truth is, if you’re like most women who are UNSUCCESSFUL in their long term relationships, then your “approach” to your relationship often depends on a man figuring out how to have a great relationship FOR YOU.
You know, all that knight in shining armor stuff where a man’s love and unrelenting commitment to you will make it all work out.
Good luck with that.
There’s a better way…
If you’ve had a few relationships in the past, then you’ve already learned that putting the fate of your love life and relationship in the hands of a man to save is NOT the perfect or ideal situation.
You’ve figured out that if you’re going to have a REAL relationship, that a man isn’t going to have all the answers when things get difficult or uncertain.
Don’t wait for a man to figure out how love and a relationship works.
And sure… a man has to do HIS part and learn and grow too. A man needs to know how to love and be loved too. But wouldn’t it be great if you had the CONFIDENCE that comes from KNOWING that you could create what YOU WANT in your relationship?
What if you never had to wait for a man to “figure it out” to have the love and connection you want in your life?
It’s likely that you’ve already got a head start growing up as a woman… which is why it’s time to put your knowledge and intuition to good use. You’re about to learn 3 of the most important ways that men are different when it comes to relationships… and what to do about it.
And, by the way, if you’ve got a man in your life who knows how to keep you both close and connected in your relationship at all times and you KNOW it’s going to LAST… then you don’t need to read this article. Go enjoy your love life with confidence, and give and share all of yourself freely.
But, if you aren’t 100% CERTAIN that you’re going to be able to keep a loving relationship with a man… and you’ve had problems with this in the past… then it’s time to recognize and learn how to get past those UNCERTAIN and UNCOMMITTED places with men and relationships.
Keep reading and you’ll be on your way to finding the confidence and understanding in your relationship that only a deep, close, emotional connection with a man can bring.
“Getting Clear” On What’s Going On With Men When They’re Distant Or Uninvolved In Relationships
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