by Christian Carter
Do you know that if you’re thinking, “How to get a guy interested in me?”… you might already be putting yourself in the kind of mental and emotional space that is going to push the man in your life further away from you, instead of helping you as you figure out how to get a guy.
Here’s why, and what to do about it that will keep you from ever having to wonder again how to get a guy… and instead naturally inspire that magic emotion called ATTRACTION inside your guy.
What do you think the single biggest turn off is for a man?
Do you know how to get a guy to the place where he’s wanting more than just a “casual” and physical relationship with you, and instead asking or begging you for more of your time?
If you don’t instantly and intuitively know how to do this with a man, then I want you to think about how this might work with a guy for a moment.
First, let me tell you what I can guarantee and know from experience can and will NEVER WORK for you.
It’s becoming a woman who a man feels is NEEDY around him.
Now, I know immature men throw this word and label around about women way too often, so let me clear the air.
When a man senses a woman is acting or feeling needy, no matter how sweet or beautiful or generous that woman might be… a man will suddenly have an emotional “shift” inside and stop feeling any and all ATTRACTION for her. That’s not how to get a guy interested or attracted for the long-term.
And the worst part- you don’t even have to be a needy woman for a man to feel this way and react this way with you.
If he simply catches a few of the wrong words from you, or a bit of the wrong body language, or senses too many intense emotions he doesn’t fully understand but he knows are directed towards him… he’ll have his “needy button” triggered.
Words like, “Where were you last weekend?” or “Why didn’t you call?”
And what does a man do when this happens?
You got it- he WITHDRAWS, completely.
And this only makes you feel worse.
So how to get a guy and get him thinking about and wanting you?
Let me tell you a little secret about men and how to get a guy-
Secret #1 On How To Get A Guy: Men want a woman who they feel is EASY to make HAPPY