Can you can make a man sexually interested in you and only you?

by Amy North

You can and it’s actually the key to getting him to commit to you for good.

I’ll teach you some little-known psychological secrets that will get his engines turned on for just you.

How To Make Him Stop Sleeping Around

These tips have been known to create powerful sexual feelings in any man. Use these methods sparingly and with caution because they can create a strong bond between you and your dream man.

1. Keep The Mystery Alive

Over time, it’s natural for the obsession and passion to wane and fade. But don’t worry, this lust is replaced by a sense of connection and camaraderie. But that doesn’t mean that you should let your sex life go. One of the best ways to get a guy sexually addicted to you is to always keep him guessing.man and woman in bed together

Men are hardwired differently in the sense that they covet the chase more than women in the relationship.

Just because he’s already caught you, it doesn’t mean you can’t keep him chasing you for more and more. Once you learn how to properly keep him guessing, you will make him addicted to you.

So what can you do to keep things mysterious? You could send him a simple text like, “I have a surprise for you when you get home ;)” but you can even get more creative with this. Have you ever thought about leaving sexy handwritten notes around the house? Or leaving a sexy piece of lingerie at his place? The ideas here are limitless.

2. Be Unpredictable

Routine is one of the biggest attraction killers. In order to get a man sexually addicted to you, you have to be unpredictable.

The analogy that I like to use is gambling. Think about why thousands of men and women get addicted to gambling everyday. It’s because the punishment-reward mechanism is deeply addicting for the human brain. And you can use this psychological tactic to your advantage!

So learn how to be spontaneous. Initiate sex at random times when he’s least expecting it. Try initiating sex in different locations, too. Doing so will not only keep him guessing, but you’ll have a ton of fun with it as well.

3. Say His Name

No other word is more powerful to a person than their name. As Dale Carnegie said in his famous book “How to Win Friends and Influence People” nothing sounds sweeter than hearing your own name. And your guy is no exception.

However, just randomly blurting out his name won’t do anything for his sex drive and ego. When you DO use his name, you need to make it really count. For example, whisper his name in his ear in a real dark place in public.

Or when you’re alone with him, say his name slowly and sensually to him right before striking up a conversation. Obviously, the applications here are limitless, so use your imagination.

This is one of the cornerstones of my Text Chemistry Program as using his name is especially powerful over text.

4. Touch Him When He Least Expects It

I had a guy once tell me that he loved it when his girlfriend unexpectedly reached into his front pocket to get the keys. I then started to tell my clients to do the same for their men… and the results were astounding.Woman holding man’s hands around her waist.

See, when you touch your man when he least expects it, you create the kind of physical connection that attracts men instantly.

Better yet, your guys subconsciously gets hooked to these connections to the point where he can’t stop thinking about you when you’re not around.

So from this point on, look for little reasons to “accidentally” touch your guy. And make sure that every touch is slow, sensual, and memorable. For example, don’t just grab his keys from his pocket quickly. Make sure you intentionally and slowly grab them from him while rubbing your wrist on his thigh as you pull them out.

And here’s another example: as you’re walking with him, don’t just grab for his hand – instead, take both your hands and slowly grab his hand… then sensually place his hand within yours. Once you master this, it’s likely he’ll stop sleeping around.

5. Don’t Tell Him Every Single Detail About Your Life

Along the lines of keeping the mystery fresh, make sure that you don’t divulge every single little thing that happens to you in the day. In fact, creating space when he least expects it will make him even hungrier for you.

In fact, men are generally overwhelmed by so much detail of your day to day life and this turns men off. They get bored. So instead of spilling your guts right away through text or conversation, frame your speech a little differently.

For example, if you want to tell him about something, jump right to the conclusion first. Say something like, “I ran into your dad today.” or “I got a promotion at work.” and then leave a long silence.

Bait him into asking you questions. The more he commits to knowing more, the more likely he is to become addicted to talking to you.

Of course, this doesn’t exactly directly relate to sex, but this creates a ton of emotional chemistry which will definitely go a long way to make him stop sleeping around.

6. Give Him Genuine Compliments

Especially when it relates to your sex life or his physical appearance!

One trick to getting a guy to feel crazy amounts of attraction for you is to let him believe that your connection with him is totally unique. And by complimenting him in a very unique and particular way, you’re giving him a spurt of genuine happiness that only you can provide.

For example, say your guy is a huge gym rat and he works really hard at sculpting his abs. You could say something like… “I absolutely LOVE how your abs feel in my hands.”

This is a compliment that only you can give and it will make him feel those butterflies at the pit of his stomach. So try it sometime!

7. Change Up Your Look

Try dying your hair a different color sometime. It will give the illusion that your man is with a new woman, and he will be more than keen to flirt and chase you.

Too extreme? There are endless small changes you can make that will alter your look just enough to activate the novelty centre of a man’s brain. You need to find the balance between brand new and familiar that is the essence of attraction.

So try switching it up every now and then and I guarantee that your guy will notice and love it. This could just take away his desire to sleep around.

8. Use The Power Of Jealousy

Love and attraction can be weird sometimes… and you can use this strangeness to your advantage. Men become like 10 times more attentive to you if they know a ton of other guys want them.Couple laying in the grass intimately kissing

So when you’re in public, get dolled up! Make friendly conversations with the people around you. Chances are, guys will start flirting with you… and once your guy notices this, he will begin to feel super lucky to be with such a hot catch.

Harnessing the power of jealousy is one thing you learn from the Devotion System, my step-by-step guide to attracting and locking down your ideal man from meet-cute to

Amy North is a women’s relationship coach and best-selling author from Vancouver, Canada, with a degree in Social Psychology. Her programs, including Text Chemistry and The Devotion System have helped dozens of women attract and keep the right guy, or improve the relationship they already have. “As your relationship coach I can be your guru, supporter, challenger, and motivator. I’ll give you the push to get going, and the tools to keep you on track. Your interests will be my interests, and I won’t judge, but I will help.”

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