get a woman's numberBy David DeAngelo

Here’s how to get a woman’s number and email address within 3 minutes:

I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago.

If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I’m in a hurry). I found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this, that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESN’T EQUAL SUCCESS.

When you call a woman for the first time, she’ll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude. It’s almost like she’s a different person than the one you met.

I’ve found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It’s almost as if women appreciate it that you’ve taken the time to think about what you’re going to say when you write an email to them and they think of you more like someone they know.

Here’s How to Get a Woman’s Number Fast:

After I’ve talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I’ll often say something like “Well, it was nice meeting you. I’m going to get back to my friends.”

They usually don’t know what to do, as they’re used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say “It was nice meeting you too…”Then, just as I’m turning to walk away and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say “HEY! Do you have email?”

The “HEY!” is a bit surprising and “Do you have email” is non-threatening. In fact, I’m technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she’ll GIVE IT TO ME.

If she says “yes,” I take out a pen and paper and say “Great, write it down for me” and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the ‘yes’ that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they’ve almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE’S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say “Write your number down there too.”

When you ask for an email, it’s very low risk for a woman, so she’ll think “Fine, I’ll do that.” Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can choose later to just not answer.

The magic of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they’re in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human behavior.

She’s already mentally said “OK, I’ll give you my email address”… and she’s in the middle of writing it down. When you say “And just write your number down there too” it’s only NATURAL to just write it.

I’ve gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two – no kidding!

In other words, it’s a MUCH smaller step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this simple move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.

Like I said, I’ve tried all kinds of things. And I’ve gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact sequence every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I’ve gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two – no kidding!

Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it’s small, classy, and women love it!

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Your Friend, David

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  1. Tiffany on October 6, 2011 at 3:35 pm

    “When you call a woman for the first time, she’ll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude.”

    Are you even talking about real women here? Most women, as far as I know, are delighted if a man calls. In fact, if she gave you her number, then the chances are, she is hoping you will call!

    As a woman, I feel so weird reading this advice about how to “get” a woman’s number. You want to get it because she wants to give it to you, right? So why resort to trickery and subtle psychological manipulation (i.e. the part where you treat her “yes” to saying she has email as also a green light to get it from her) when you can just be up front and straightforward and ask for what you want?

    I can tell you that I LOVE that approach, as long as the man has made some effort to chat with me, so that I know he likes me, and isn’t just trying to rack up “numbers” or be “polite.”

    I was once out at a club, where a man saw me, started talking to me, and within less than two minutes, he said, “Can I get your number? I’d like to take you out.”

    Then you know what he did? He followed up. He took me out. It was amazing.

    It’s not as hard as you think, guys. Just be honest and genuine and be yourself (same for us women, right?) Don’t play “games” because we can tell when you’re doing it, and that’s when we are likely to become standoffish and “rude.”

  2. Ra on October 7, 2011 at 11:48 pm

    I agree with Tiffany. Once I get to thinking about how I was pressured into giving my number would definitely make me wary and uncomfortable with someone like David. If you resort to trickery right at the start, how many more tricks would you have up your sleeve later ‘Dishonest David’??

  3. benny on October 17, 2011 at 11:36 am

    i think i agree with Tiffany on the honesty thing, just getting the number does not mean you have successfully won her heart. but honesty can do the magic of achieving your greatest desire, since the phone number is not what you really want.

  4. Sabba on April 19, 2012 at 8:59 am

    I would never give my number to a guy after two mins of talk, I would think that he just likes to hang around & collect some numbers. Besides don’t think that your idea of asking if she has an email will works for all, I would just answer of course I have :P & will only write it for him if he asks in a proper way like a real man not like a player.

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