by Christian Carter
When a man decides he doesn’t want a relationship with you – even though you felt a strong connection with him – are you inclined to say he “wasn’t worth your time” and that you “deserve something better”?
That may be true. And telling yourself something like that can certainly make you feel better.
But what if the reason a man isn’t feeling it for you has to do with your OWN inability to understand what he needs to feel in love?
Connection With A Man – What Doesn’t Work:
Have you ever been so attracted to a man, that the more you spent time being with and thinking about him, the more attached you felt, and therefore the more INSECURE you became?
I see this happen all the time in women when a man doesn’t act or respond the way they want him to. Things seem to run hot and cold – sometimes he calls, sometimes he backs off.
If this has happened to you, then you know that the insecurity you feel becomes a downward spiral. The more insecure you feel, the more afraid you are of “screwing things up” or “scaring him off.” He senses your fear, and backs away even further…
“If a man isn’t attracted to a woman, all of her attempts to share a connection, convince him to like her, and to feel and share love will backfire.”
It’s a difficult place to be. A woman will drive herself crazy trying to figure out what he’s thinking, and when she can’t take it anymore, she decides to tell him how she’s feeling… that she’s falling for him, or that she doesn’t understand why he isn’t feeling the same way.
There can be drama, tears, and pleas. That’s usually the beginning of the end. The man might be flattered at first by her proclamations and even appear to respond the way she wants him to, but chances are he will back off – often for good.
Why He Runs From Connection
I’m going to tell you something you probably already know in your gut.
If a man isn’t attracted to a woman, all of her attempts to share a connection, convince him to like her, and to feel and share love will backfire.
In other words, they not only don’t work – they make things worse. They trigger an INTENSE discomfort in him that makes him want to run.
What Makes a Man WANT A Connection With You
Even though a woman might have nothing but the most loving and positive emotional intentions in the long run, these actually cause the woman feeling them to do things that make the man pull away… and sometimes for good.
Connection Starts With Your Mindset
To really create a true heart connection with a man, you need to trigger an emotional attraction in him. And this starts with the beliefs you carry with you. Women who are successful in love generally hold these “mindsets”:
* I don’t let a man determine what I want/will have in my love life.
* I’d move on and leave a man before I’d let him ruin my life.
* I wouldn’t keep a man from doing the things he enjoys.
And that’s just for starters. Having these mindsets “fire up” a man and make him want to get to know you on a deeply connected level. In my eBook Catch Him And Keep Him, I delve into the concept of emotional attraction, positive mindsets and show you how to trigger an intense connection in a man.
Wouldn’t it feel great to have the guy you’re so attracted to be interested in something meaningful and “real” with you, too? On page 39 of my eBook, you’ll learn how to use powerful emotional “triggers” to show him how easy you are to love. You’ll learn how to make him see you as a future partner instead of just a friend, or a casual fling on page 47.
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Your Friend, Christian
Christian Carter is the most caring man coaching women out there…he’s so sweet, so handsome, and he’s been working with women for so long he really understands how we work, and is committed to helping us crack the code of men and taking the mystery completely out of relationships. Go to get his free newsletters right here and get the real, true, deep and committed connection you want with a man–>>