by Carol Allen
Have you ever known a woman who was incredibly popular with men but not for OBVIOUS reasons?
Like, she didn’t have an amazing body, she wasn’t classically beautiful, she wasn’t super smart…
And yet – there was something that seemed to LURE men to her, almost as if by MAGIC?
I’ve known several such women, and have observed them over time.
Some were friends I grew up with, some have been clients…
And they all share a few things in common.
And – the GOOD NEWS is – since it’s NOT that they’re amazingly physically blessed or mentally gifted – ANY of us MERE mortals can LEARN what they know, and start having the kind of results they have.
(You know – men falling all over them to get their attention!)
So… what’s their SECRET?
What’s the big mystery, you ask?
In a nutshell, they have the TWO most important qualities men are universally looking for:
1. They’re SEXY
2. They’re FUN
Yup – it may not sound spiritually deep, but it’s true – men want to be with women who are SEXY and FUN.
Now, the words “sexy” and “fun” are loaded words.
One man’s “sexy” may be another man’s fat…
One man’s “sexy” may be another man’s scrawny…
One man’s “fun” may be another man’s annoying…
One man’s “fun” may be another man’s hyper.
You get the idea.
And yet – there are a few things that men universally mean when they say “sexy.”
The word “sexy” means you are IN YOUR BODY. Not your head. You’re PRESENT. You’re with him when he’s with you – you’re not looking around, worried about your hair, thinking of what to say next, afraid of what he’s thinking…
You’re comfortable in your own skin, and you can HOLD his gaze.
The word “fun” means you’re HAPPY.
You ELEVATE situations.
You’re playful, flexible, upbeat, open to what happens…
You make him forget his problems.
You make time fly.
You bring a smile to his face.
A man will KNOCK himself out for a woman who can do that!
Even if she’s NOT his usual “type,” not a great dresser, not otherwise successful…
For years I spoke at singles events and GORGEOUS women, dressed to the nines, would come up to me and say, “I get SO many first dates, but not a lot of second ones, and I don’t know why…”
And right away I could tell why.
They were NERVOUS, ANXIOUS, and TRYING too hard. With every twitch and terse smile they were broadcasting to the world their discomfort and lack of confidence.
And it even made ME want to run in the other direction! (Not really – I’m being dramatic…)
And they had no idea what was going on.
Whereas, women who AREN’T necessarily great beauties or fabulous dressers but who can do ANY of that other stuff for a man (make his problems vanish, etc.) will get TONS of men going out of their way to win their affections…
So what do you do if you’re not a goddess with men? Can you really change that?
Can you go from being nervous, anxious, and trying too hard to being relaxed, calm, playful, and in the moment?
When you know your STRONG and WEAK links in this way, it enables you to INCREASE your inborn “good stuff” and “minimize” your “not as good stuff” so that you don’t unconsciously PUT MEN OFF.
(Seriously – learning about these parts of yourself can not only allow you to FORGIVE yourself for these less than perfect traits you possess – it can totally SAVE your love life!)
So – unlock your inner SEXY and FUN side at last, and make the most of what your stars have in store!
Any may God and his planets and stars shower you with love!
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