Here’s How To Have More Love And Less Drama In Your Lovelife

Do you wonder why you haven’t been able to find the love you want or why you attract relationship drama into your life?

by Eris Huemer, M.A.

Let’s start with a couple of tips about things you can control, starting now.


The first step is for you to begin asking yourself what you want your future or present relationship to look like. Be specific and concrete.

If your current relationship isn’t going so well:

Picture yourself having a more peaceful and harmonic relationship. What do you say when an argument is about to arise? How do you act and behave towards your mate? What do you do differently?

The next step is for you start being that person who is in a more harmonic and peaceful relationship.

If you are looking for love:

Picture yourself in a relationship. What does your mate do, say, look like? How do they treat you? What things do you enjoy to do together.

The next step is for you to open yourself up to attract that relationship in your life.


Your intention is so you make sure that you are focused on the right thing, in the right way.

If you are in a relationship and having troubles:

Set an intention to act differently than you are currently behaving. Use the visualization tool and visualize becoming that person. Take whatever steps along the way to get to the relationship you really want.

Don’t worry about what your mate is doing. It really is not about them.

Keep the focus on yourself and do whatever it takes to get to where you visualize yourself going.

If you are single and want to attract a new relationship in your life:

Set an intention to attract a new relationship in your life. Use the visualization tool and visualize being with your mate. Take whatever steps you need to take to find a mate. Get on dating sites, ask your friends to set you up with their single friends, Go out and flirt, tell everyone you are ready to find a mate.

Whatever you truly, truly work hard for, and believe that you will have, is what you will create.

When a person makes a living doing what she loves, she does not give up, she does not give in, and she insists on doing it. That’s what we’re talking about here. Not magical thinking but a belief that we can and will have the relationship that we want.

We will do everything in our power, and everything that feels right to us, to do so. It’s as simple as that. The person who has no clarity, no goals, is unsure of themselves, and has a lack of follow through, will probably have more difficulty creating what they want. It is all a matter of choice.

It is important to be clear with yourself about what kind of a relationship and future you want to create for you.

So how do you get such clarity?

When you see a clear picture and set an intention for yourself to get there.

You can have the relationship you want. But, in order for you to make your relationship dreams come true, in order to manifest them in your life, it is important to make your dreams into a clear visual picture.

I suggest that your relationship vision be complete and focused. It is important to ensure that your vision is what you really want.

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