Getting Your Guy To Adore You

I have a heartbreaking – yet amazing – story about my friend Kathy – and I think it’s something you can relate to.

by Carlos Cavallo

Late last year, Kathy came over to my house for lunch with me…

When she came in the door, I knew something was up.

Her face was red and puffy – you could see she had been crying a lot, but I didn’t say anything.

The more we talked, the more closed off her body language became, and the more she looked down, avoiding my eyes

Her shoulders slumped…her arms crossed…

After just a couple minutes of small talk, she blurted out: “Carlos, I think Jim is seeing someone else. I think I’m losing him!”

Jim was her boyfriend, who she had been dating for over 2 years now.

She went on a trip to France with him where she expected him to “pop the question” to her in Paris…

But instead of a proposal, when they got back home he became more and more distant from her.

He talked less about his feelings for Kathy, and he was running hot and cold with her. He had one foot in and one foot out of their

Kathy was starting to wonder if he still loved her at all.

Jim had just told her he wanted to “start seeing other people.”

Kathy felt isolated and lonely, and didn’t know who to turn to, or what to do to fix their relationship.

On top of it all, her father had been diagnosed with cancer in the past year, and Kathy’s heart was heavy with sadness and grief.

Now, Kathy said that she had started to worry when it felt like the connection she and Jim shared wasn’t as strong anymore.

I asked her if she meant his feelings for her, and she said yes, that was part of it…but mostly it was the connection she had felt between them.

She even described it: “Our connection was like this feeling that we’ve got this wire or beam of light connecting us, between his chest and mine…and I can sense when it’s dim and cold, or if it’s bright and alive. It’s like a love-line between us. When it’s bright, I’m happy, and there’s no anxiety. No worries. When it’s faint, I feel scared, anxious, and restless. And I know I have to do something to make sure we’re okay.”

When Kathy told me about what was happening with her and Jim, I thought this could be the perfect time to share some of the new “tricks” I’d discovered about guys.

So I started explaining what Jim was thinking, and why he was acting this way…

To discover the secret that saved Kathy’s connection to Jim – and her relationshipCLICK HERE!

And I’m also going to explain something I call the “Cookie Secret” to you – and this cookie is the hidden method to get any man to adore you.

Carlos Cavallo is a dating and attraction adviser, as well as a black belt instructor and motivational life coach. He’s the author of Forever Yours – The Secret Password To His Heart, The Get Your Man! program, and too many other articles to mention. Carlos brings to the table a variety of life experiences, including a background in relationship skills, life-coaching, motivational psychology, sales, management, Martial Arts, teaching and instruction, energy work, Eastern philosophy, the psychology of achievement, and music. Carlos Cavallo’s programs teach the essence of attraction between the sexes. By understanding the successful traits of an attractive single, you can attract the right man, achieve more success with your personal and social world, and experience a more rewarding life.


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