by Gina Ratliffe
Do you keep working on your business the same way and continue to hope for a different result? Only to get worn out and tired because you’re not thriving financially?
You’re not alone.
The main reason I see women entrepreneurs get frustrated and overwhelmed is because they will often just keep going through the motions, “working” or filling their time up with work-related activity, that is not necessarily yeidling high results.
When anyone becomes frustrated, the temptation is to quit. Or to feel like you don’t have what it takes to succeed in your business or bank account.
One of the most valuable principles for women’s success is business is: Don’t Give Up! If you REALLY WANT to thrive, the answer is to BE different and DO things differently. Don’t keep doing what you’re doing if it’s NOT WORKING!
As wise women and Queens we must look at what is preventing us from effectively raising prices, booking clients, closing the sales and selling out the workshops.
Money issues are connected to your self-worth and your self-esteem.
Your relationship to money is directly linked to your ability to take up space in this world. It is also in direct connection to your ability to receive abundance, an abundance that is meant to support you. The way that you dance in your money relationship dynamic typically comes down to one core issue – do you think enough of yourself?
Are you available enough to love yourself? Are you able to let yourself be who you are in your relationship with your career enough to ask for what you want? When you really get in touch with what you need to succeed, to get the results, the instinct to work merely for the sake of being active, goes away.
4 Ways to Get Different & Better Results Are:
1. Don’t give up on your dreams by STOPPING: Focus on yourself and change the behaviors that aren’t working. You can’t give what you don’t have. So if you don’t have yourself, if you don’t have money, if you don’t have self-esteem, if you don’t have time, you can’t give any of that to anyone else.
2. Envision yourself as Queen. Spend some blissful moments seeing yourself with the desired result. You get what you focus on. So if you’re focusing on seeing yourself with the ideal client saying yes to working with you, or if you’re imagining your teleclasses and workshops sold out, you will achieve that very image!
3. Be Smart & Savvy. Don’t think that because you sent out a few emails and didn’t get 100 sign-ups that your program is doomed for failure. Or in your first few weeks of launching a new seminar that it should somehow miraculously sell out. Be wise with how you launch your products and services and give it time to grow.
4. Dont’ Stop Short of Your Goal: It takes 21 days to develop a new pattern or habit. If you’re starting a new business venture tend to that garden with intention and attention.
Enjoy your life and your business building process. Otherwise you can miss the exquisite life experience when you are just trying to get through the day, or the week, or to the next paycheck.
We miss life when we are so obsessed with the future outcome.
What we CAN do, what WILL HELP us all achieve our goals is to ask for help. There are classes and cds and seminars and coaches and therapists and financial planners who have dedicated their lives to help you succeed! You just have to ask for it. You HAVE to press on, you just have to do it differently than you were before. Enjoy all of the resources and help available to you.
2009 Gina Ratliffe
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