Or let s say you want a smart, sweet, sensitive, stabile, kind, good, romantic, sexy date but consistently go for men who treat you like dirt and leave you lying in the street licking your wounds?
Let s get real here. Men aren t the only visual ones, we all are. We like a man who dresses clean, in fashion, and upscale.
We like a woman who shows a bit of skin and wears soft, feminine, flattering clothes in colors we like.
And we all have a part of ourselves that thinks we don t deserve someone who s good, kind, smart, stabile and sexy all at the same time so when we see one like that, we run!
So get out of your own way. Stop running when you see a real prospect, even if you don t think he or she would be interested in you.
Stop pretending you don t care by dressing sloppily or unflatteringly.
Stop yourself before you get pulled in by someone who doesn t have the eyes and heart to see what a gem you are, and stay away from that old pattern.
Start something new.
Get out of your way and Get behind yourself!