The decision to have sex with a woman often has NOTHING to do with whether a man has decided that he wants to “date” you more seriously. And sure. it would be nice if men were different and didn’t take sex so lightly. And it would be great if a man let you know how he felt and what he really wanted before he slept with you. But that’s not the reality of how men think.
Here’s another thing you need to understand- I’m willing to bet that you’re not entirely innocent here, either. You contributed to the situation too.
Let me ask you. Were you up-front and honest about what you were looking for BEFORE you slept with him? Did you say to him- “If we sleep together, I’m going to want a relationship.”
Or. “I only sleep with a man if he already values me and sees me for the amazing woman that I am.”
My guess is no, you didn’t say anything like that. You probably did what lots of women do in the “casual dating” situation when it comes to sex- You gave him NO impression about whether you were in it for the fun and connection of it all with him, or for something more “serious.”
You thought the act of sex alone would speak for itself. Wrong!
Here a few of the mistakes women make that get them into tough situations like yours….
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