attracting menAre you attracting men just fine but don’t like any of them?

Are you too “picky”?

Are the men who show up for you, online, at the market – wherever you go (the ones who are interested in you…) “low quality,” as far as you’re concerned?

Here’s a bit of letter from Alice:

“Rori, Using your Tools, I seem to have become a man magnet – but how do I raise the quality of these men? What about ME is attracting low quality men? Am I low quality and just unaware of it and these men are reflecting that back to me? What Tool of yours can I use to attract my dream man?”

Here’s My Answer For Attracting Men Who’re HIGH Quality:

Alice, you’re attracting men and allowing all kinds of men to get into your space – which is WONDERFUL. This is totally the first step you need to take.

And here’s what’s missing, and where we’ll go next:

1. What you don’t FEEL yet – is that you have a CHOICE – and you DO!

2. The men you are attracting are not necessarily “low-quality” men. As you learn to SPEAK to them like this:  “I really felt icky when you said (fill in the blank here)…I feel very sensitive. Kindness and compassion and generosity are very important qualities for me in a man, and I don’t feel comfortable with being judged or hearing that kind of stuff…” – you won’t have to deal with that anymore. You’ll be attracting men who don’t speak to you in ways that feel bad to you. Because that’ll be a “lesson” you won’t need to repeat!

Remember – that’s what all these men are showing up for – for you to PRACTICE on! It’s much easier to learn when you practice on men you’re NOT hugely attracted to, so that when the really great guys come along it’s almost automatic for you.

You’re moving so fast, it’s amazing and I’m so proud of you – AND… to really get this happening the way you want – you have to practice. And that’s why you’re attracting men like these – to SHAKE YOU UP!!! In a GOOD way!

Here’s what you need to practice: Instead of thinking about “What do I DO?” with a man – I want you to focus on “What do I FEEL?”  And then I want you to practice saying that out loud to him.

3. You are attracted to and attracting men who are not the quality you want for lifelong commitment not because YOU are low-quality. It’s because you BELIEVE (somewhere deep inside) that you are low-quality, and that this kind of man is all you deserve.

That’s what we’re working on. To get you so loving yourself, so appreciating yourself that you whip around those old, deep, hard to get to beliefs about yourself.

So – Alice – This is your focus – to get how this works. I want you to love and appreciate yourself – and then I want you to love and appreciate the fact that WHATEVER man has shown up for you to practice with, and I want you to FIND OUT, just by intuiting, and being, and receiving, what the MESSAGE is that he’s bringing.

Find out what’s interesting about him. Find out why he showed up in your life, just by following your feelings.

Sometimes the message is: “I don’t have to do this again…”

From Sarah: Rori Raye rocks – her methods are completely different than any other “expert” out there, and I know you’ll love her free newsletters…get them here and learn all you need to know about attracting men.

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