by David Wygant

Before you get all upset and think that this is advice from a man whose ego was wounded by your electronic boyfriend (your vibrator), I have some real facts for you!

Please lay off the vibrators. Trust me, I am not a man who is jealous of a vibrator.

What I have found, though, is that some women are so vibrator dependent that trying to get them to have an orgasm by licking or playing with their clitoris is like trying to negotiate traffic on the 405 freeway in Los Angeles. It’s next to impossible.

So many women are vibrator dependent because a vibrator works so fast and produces such a centralized orgasm. Our tongues can never work that fast. We don’t vibrate at 10,000 miles per hour like we’re taking off in a rocket ship to the moon.

So the bottom line is this: If you’re a woman who is so vibrator dependent that you cannot orgasm with a man, then you’ve got to lay off of the vibrator.

Vibrators Are The Downfall Of Women

When a woman uses a vibrator, she can lay there and have an orgasm in three seconds (and then rest and have another one three seconds after that). Then when you are with a man instead of a vibrator, he has to go down there for about six hours to get you to feel anything.

Not only that, but really think about what kind of orgasm you want to be having. According to most women I’ve been with, the orgasm a woman experiences with a man during oral sex and foreplay is far greater and better because it’s achieved with lot of touching, caressing, talking and feeling.

So if you’re a woman and you’re about to start a relationship, my suggestion to you is to lay off the vibrator… for at least a week or two before you start sleeping with the guy. Let the sexual energy and tension build up again, and don’t let your clitoris get so numb. When you do that, you are giving the guy the opportunity to please you.

When you’re not in a relationship, go ahead and vibrate away to your heart’s content. Go for it! Have a great time with your little mechanical boyfriend.

If You’ve Got A Relationship Coming Down The Pike, Though, Then You Need To Put The Vibrator In The Closet

If you feel like you just can’t resist that vibrator, then go and buy a room safe (like they have in cheap hotels), put it in there and forget the combination.

The fact is that when you’re in a relationship, you need that man to explore your body and you need to give that man the opportunity to please you in every way. Remember that no matter what a vibrator can do, it is never going to replace the one-on-one intimacy and the one-on-one contact you have when you’re with someone of the opposite sex.

David Wygant a leading personal dating coach, dating advice professional and image-maker. For 20 years David Wygant has worked to earn the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives. David has a wealth of free dating advice available (and very to the point like this advice about using a vibrator) including free dating videos->

7 Comments

  1. Carla on September 1, 2011 at 11:58 pm

    Dude… You can’t possibly be serious!



  2. bronzelle on September 3, 2011 at 4:24 pm

    If your woman is over stimulated try putting an ice cube on her clitoris maybe that will cool her down.



  3. bronzelle on September 3, 2011 at 4:33 pm

    ya, I bet if they made a strap on vibrating snatch you men would never take it off



  4. Darlene The Party Lady on September 3, 2011 at 7:31 pm

    I am going to be up front here…I do Passion Parties. So you can decide that I am biased if you want. I am just being honest.

    I talk to women every week who dont get anywhere near the touching, holding and caressing they want. So they are thrilled to have options for self pleasure and partner pleasure too.

    They do make toys to be held, strapped on him, strapped on her, lotions and potions to make things feel more intense or slippery and all do have very valid uses.

    Oh, and did you know that you can hold a bullet style vibrator under your tongue as you pleasure a woman and become a living vibrator? If you can’t satisfy your partner in less than 6 hours, maybe trying something new is in order?

    And Bronzelle…yes, they do make strap on sleeves for mens pleasure too…believe me, they are some of my best sellers! ;)



  5. bronzelle on September 3, 2011 at 7:39 pm

    cool! I’ll tell my man



  6. Hahaha on January 12, 2012 at 11:08 am

    I meant ‘self pleasuring’. Almost choked on my food laughing, hence the typo. You think we don’t notice your porn addictions? The signs are obvious. You should be glad we are using vibrators as obviously guys don’t want to put in the work or suck at it.



  7. Hahaha on January 12, 2012 at 11:12 am

    We will lay off the toys if you promise to never masturbate and never watch porn.



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