Men know, as well as women do, that it’s EASY to find someone who makes you WILD with attraction and desire at first…
And hard to find someone who makes you feel this way loooooooong into your relationship.
Here’s something you might not know about men.
Men aren’t as scared of COMMITMENT and RELATIONSHIPS as they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there is no PASSION and ATTRACTION.
Have you ever had a situation with a man where the passion or the attraction seemed to fizzle out, but you didn’t know what to do about it?
Do you know how to start off conversations with a man and build the ATTRACTION that a man is feeling to the level at which he’ll be BEGGING YOU for more time and attention?
Do you know how to…
Keep The Attraction Going Strong
inside your relationship, and what makes a man stay intensely attracted to a woman well into the relationship and past the “honeymoon stage”?
A common way women accidentally KILL the ATTRACTION men might be feeling is by either TRYING TOO HARD to get him to like you, or by acting like the relationship is too serious too soon.
Here’s a tip as a single woman…
When dating, a great way to create attraction with a man is instead of trying to get so serious by talking about what he does for a living, where he grew up, etc. (even though these can be important things)…
Make sure you do and say things that interject FUN and HUMOR into your relationship from the very start.
There’s nothing more appealing to a man than a great woman who knows how to relax and have fun.
And the universal way that men relax, have fun and BOND is through playful TEASING.
Flirting almost always involves some form of humor and sarcasm- as in instead of answering a man directly when he asks you what you do for a living… you look at him and think of the most ridiculous thing you could imagine getting him to believe and say that instead.
The Deep Level of Attraction
It’s not that WHAT you say starts off an amazing chain of events that leads down the road to building a deep level of attraction.
It’s the fact that instead of being so caught up in your mind, you’re joking, having fun, and inviting a man into playfulness with you.
Men instantly understand what’s going on when there’s a connection with a woman and she starts being playful this way- and respond by opening up and becoming more engaged and attached with you on an EMOTIONAL level without even knowing it.
Of course, the fun and playfulness of being UNPREDICTABLE holds true when you’re in a relationship as well.
Most couples get very used to each other, and how their partner will act and respond day in and day out.
Part of this is a natural progression to a relationship that provides a healthy level of PREDICTABILITY to things.
And if you can be the woman who also mixes this with fun, exciting and playful UNPREDICTABLE things… suddenly a man doesn’t know quite what to expect.
Suddenly he’s reminded that he hasn’t quite seen everything that there is to you.
And suddenly you’re having fun teasing him and engaging in a playful back-and-forth that has the PASSION and ATTRACTION level rising all the while.
From Sarah: Christian knows all about how to drive a man wild from the first moment through years of a committed relationship. If you’re working on sparking that passion and sustaining it, you need to check him out. Go to his site for more free advice about the laws of ATTRACTION.