Physical attraction will only get you so far with a man.
By Helena Hart
That’s why these five signs a man is emotionally attracted to you are really important to watch out for.
As you’ve probably experienced, the way you look or the way a man is physically attracted to you might be what first gets his attention.
But… physical attraction is not what ultimately inspires a man’s love, devotion, and lifelong commitment.
In order for a man to truly fall in love and want to be with you forever, he has to feel an emotional connection and a deep heart-to-heart bond with you.
It’s really important that he is emotionally attracted to you.
These signs a man is emotionally attracted to you are so important to become aware of and look out for when you’re dating or maybe in a new relationship or even if you’ve been with a man for a long time.
1. He notices the little things about you.
The first sign a man is emotionally attracted to you is that he notices little things about you that other people might miss.
These things might have something to do with your personality, character or the way you feel or behave in certain situations.
When a man is noticing these little things about you that maybe an acquaintance or a coworker, someone you just know on a surface level might not notice, it’s a sign that he’s really listening to you and paying attention to you, learning from you and it’s a great sign that he’s becoming emotionally attracted to you.
This could be anything.
Has a man ever noticed something about you for example, that you tend to get nervous when you’re in this situation like meeting new people or if you have to give a presentation at work, it could be anything.
These little things that he notices about you are likely kind of endearing him to you. It’s really important and it’s kind of subtle but important thing to become aware of.
2. He loves and accepts you for who you are.
The second sign a man is emotionally attracted to you is that he loves and accepts you for who you are.
When a man starts to really fall in love or become emotionally attracted to you, he’s going to want to see you even when you’re feeling vulnerable and not at your best.
For example, when you first wake up in the morning or if you’re sick and not feeling well or if you had a bad day.
A man is going to want to be by your side and he’s actually going to love you and accept you for these vulnerable parts that you might not want to show to others.
Men fall in love with you for what you perceive to be your flaws, not in spite of them.
So if you aren’t feeling like you’re at your best but he still wants to be by your side and seems really attracted to you— maybe even more attracted and connected in those moments— it’s a big sign that he’s developing an emotional attraction to you that just goes beyond superficial physical attraction.
3. He opens up and confides in you.
The third sign he’s emotionally attracted to you is when he opens up and starts to confide in you.
Men are kind of notorious for not easily being able to open up to others, especially to women they are in a relationship with.
A lot of men have been taught from an early age that it’s not safe to open up or it’s not masculine to express your feelings.
If a man starts to see you as someone who he can open up to and confide in, it’s a big sign he’s starting to develop some emotional attraction to you.
You want to be sure that you’re doing some of these things with him as well. Usually, you have to go first.
When you start to open up to him, that’s usually when he starts to feel safe.
When you’re able to open up to him, you’ll see him starting to confide in you a little more. It’s pretty amazing how this works.
4. He’s there for you even when it’s NOT convenient for him.
Sign number four is that he’s there for you even when it’s not convenient for him. This sign a man is emotionally attracted to you is huge.
Most men love to be your hero. They love to make you happy and give to you. The key here is when it’s not convenient for him.
This could be anything.
Let’s say your car breaks down, something with your technology isn’t working. Maybe your computer crashes or you’re sick and need someone to go get you medicine in the middle of the night.
It could be anything.
When a man is going out of his way to meet your needs or be your hero, it’s a big sign that there’s an emotional attraction happening here or at least developing, so this is a big thing to watch for.
That brings me to sign number five that a man is emotionally attracted to you.
5. He’s making you a bigger and bigger part of his life.
He is escalating his efforts with you and he’s allowing you to influence him. This could look like all different kinds of things.
He could be introducing you to his friends and family.
He could be increasing the amount of time he sees you every week.
Maybe you used to hang out on weekends, but now he’s starting to see you during the week and you’re kind of joining your two lives together— depending on where you’re at in your relationship.
When you see these signs a man is emotionally attracted to you, he’s showing you that he sees you as part of his future and as part of a bigger vision for his life.
Especially when he allows you to influence him, that’s a huge, huge sign of emotional attraction.
It could be little things like he watches the movie that you want to watch or he takes you to the restaurant that you want to go to.
It could be bigger things as well in terms of what job he takes, in terms of the location where you want to live versus where he wants to live one day, it could be anything.
Again, this depends on where you’re at in your relationship.
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From Erin at LoveRomanceRelationship: Helena Hart is a love and relationship guru who’s work can help guide you to the right guy, and show you how to deepen the connection beyond anything you’ve experienced in the past. We recommend her work very highly here (as you can tell)!