dating mistakesBy Michael Webb

Great men are hard to find; so when you find one, don’t ruin your chances by making these deadly dating mistakes.

Remember, attractive men have dated a lot of women so they know what’s going on. The result? They’ll disappear before you realize you’ve even made any dating mistakes.

Here Are 5 Dating Mistakes That Blow Your Chances With A Man – And How To Avoid Them

#1 of the Dating Mistakes: Sharing your feelings with him too early

Men love their freedom and independence ­ no mysteries there! So when you announce that you love him, it often sets off a trigger that you might be one of those “clingy types.” Remember that the early stages of dating should always remain casual.

Only after you get to know each other really well should you pursue anything further. It’s also worth mentioning that you can’t logically convince someone to fall in love with you. Falling in love is a process that happens outside the conscious mind ­ remember that. Which brings me to…

#2 of the Dating Mistakes: Trying to push it too far too soon

It’s natural to wonder about the nature of your relationship, “Does he want more? Or is this just a fling?” But remember, if you start talking about marriage after only 12 months, you could ruin your chances to take things further. And if you don’t live together, cooking dinner or doing his laundry isn’t a good idea.

A nice meal once in a while is okay, but don’t make it a regular thing. Yes, it’s true, many men are scared of commitment; but just because they don’t want it now, doesn’t mean they don’t want to settle down. They just need time.

#3 of the Dating Mistakes : Being too available

You might think this is playing a mind game or being manipulative, but putting your best side forward is also manipulative.

Why? Because it’s done to get a desirable outcome. This is simply a reminder to be who you were before you met the man and continue to be that person, rather than use trickery.

Remember that your busy, interesting and fun life only has so much time for him, no matter how much you like him. And remember, men love a challenge, so this actually works in your favor.

#4 of the Dating Mistakes: Not being yourself

Men love confident women with a strong sense of self-worth. Unfortunately, women often try to guess how the man wants them to act and try to accommodate his mold, which leaves very little room for your own personality to shine. (And yes, men do this too.) In other words, they love her strength. It’s very attractive.

#5 of the Dating Mistakes: Appealing to his sexual side too much

Believe it or not, it’s NOT make-up, dyed hair, pretty clothes or even nice shoes that attract men, not into a successful long-term relationships anyway! While “looks” is the obvious factor that seems to get an instant response from men, long-term success comes with finding a man who admires and respects you regardless of your exterior. If your man only likes you for your looks, then he doesn’t really love you.

So there you have it. The 5 big mistakes that women make while they’re dating men. Avoid these dating mistakes and you’ll dramatically increase the chances of succeeding with him.

Michael Webb has written so many best-selling books about all aspects of relationships – and we know he’s been one of Oprah’s favorite relationship experts, and so we chose his book “Getting Him Back” for you – it’s the most comprehensive one we found about how to get your man back – and how to find out if you even really WANT him back!  Just go here to read about Michael and check out his system for “Getting Him Back.”  You really can undo any dating mistakes if you have the information you need->

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  1. RIsper on April 8, 2011 at 12:35 am

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