good dateby Eris Huemer, MA

You might be asking, “Where are all of the single fish in the sea?”

One of the Greatest Relationship Secrets that you must know now is: EVERYWHERE!

One of the greatest relationship myths is that “All the good guys are taken.”

In fact, the fact is that 44% of adult Americans are single, which means there are over 100 million unattached men and women. So, there have got to be some good – even GREAT – men out there.

So, the burning question on your lips right now is, “Where do I find these men?”

The answer is – OUTSIDE!

Yes, I said OUTSIDE. And, he’s looking for you.

That means he’s not in your home, hiding under your bed. And, he probably won’t be the mailman knocking on your door tomorrow morning. He’s out in the world, living his life, hunting for you.

That means that you need to start going out and about if you want to find your man.

As you probably know, attracting a relationship can be enjoyable but sometimes challenging. That’s why, if you want to attract the relationship that you want and deserve, you have to go where people gather.

But, before you start your quest you must know these 2 things:

1. What kind of a mate do you want to attract in your life? Write a list and be specific.

2. What hobbies do you enjoy? What hobbies do you want your mate to enjoy? Write a list and be specific.

After you write these things down, begin to take on the perspective of men are everywhere. Remember the song “It’s raining men! Hallelujah!” Well, sing it and believe it.

After all, it’s all about perspective.

If you believe that all of the good men are taken. Then, you will attract all of the good men who are taken. If you know that there are plenty of single, great fish in the sea, then that’s what you will attract.

Which perspective would you like to try on?

If you are ready to go out and attract the relationship that you want and deserve, I have scouted 30 of the top locations men can be found.

The Internet
The Apple store
A Fortune 500 or tech company
The weight room in the gym
A political rally or campaign
Sports Bar on a Sunday or Monday night
A volleyball league
A rock-climbing center
A steak house
Business conferences
Baseball Diamonds
Restaurant Bar
Hotel Lounge
Polo Games
Golf Tournaments
Networking Events
Home Depot/Lowes
Singles groups
Grocery Store
Gas Station
Gallery Openings
Book Store
Best Buy
Work Functions
The Mall
The Beach

And the list goes on…

Do you get my drift? Men are everywhere.

There are many great men looking to attract the women of their dreams. I suggest that you go fishing and catch your mate.

Let me know how it goes.

Relationship Expert, Eris Huemer publishes the weekly E-Zine, “The Love Eris Times.” If you are ready to find love in all areas in your life get free tips now at

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