sparklywomanby Bob Grant

A Woman Who Smiles (more powerful than you might realize)
A woman who smiles makes it easier for a man to approach her by conveying an attitude of confidence, warmth and playfulness. Since many women are fearful of giving men the wrong impression, they frequently guard their smiles.

While this approach is safer, it inadvertently sends the wrong message that she is someone who is overly cautious because she has been hurt.

In addition, smiling is a sign of acceptance. Men often need some signal that it is safe to approach a woman before they’re willing to risk introducing themselves (unless they are intoxicated).

A Woman Who Listens (instead of dominating the conversation)
Women are generally perceived as rarely really listening to men, at least not beyond a few minutes. Most of the time, a few minutes is all men really need. But since most men hate to be rejected, it is easier for them to keep conversations superficial. Men expect most women to want to talk, rather than be willing to listen.

If they happen to meet a woman who listens with her eyes (looks at him while he’s talking) as well as her ears, they are intrigued. If she continues to listen and not take over the conversation, she’s the kind of woman that men can’t resist and will eventually marry.

A Woman Who Dresses Feminine (men are really visual)
Everyone knows that men are visual. However, women often forget just how helpless men are to what they see. The right visual stimulation can hypnotize any man. Unfortunately, women hear this and often become fearful. They mistakenly believe that men only notice perfect women.

Forget perfect! If you really want to be noticed by men, think colors, dresses and curves. Men basically like any woman who has that soft and cuddly quality. It isn’t that men don’t find women attractive in pants or when they are dressed comfortably – they just don’t notice them as easily. It doesn’t catch their eye like sparkly earrings, pretty colors or flowing dresses and long hair does.

Conversely, a powerfully dressed woman (think lots of red) makes most men think of sex, or not notice her at all. She may have a soft side, but if men can’t see it, they often don’t know it exists. The more feminine (softer) a woman dresses, the more men she will attract.

From Sarah: Bob is known as “The Relationship Doctor.” He is a professional counselor, therapist and relationship coach particularly experienced in helping women to understand men and find fulfilling relationships. You can out find more right HERE->

1 Comment

  1. Daniel on April 6, 2011 at 5:34 am

    I think it actually makes sense,especially the first two of the signs.I find it interesting how many women usually complain about men not approaching them,yet it’s actually the woman who is putting her away.As studies have usually shown,over 80% of our communication is non-verbal,which implies that many men will find it easy to approach any lady based on what signs he sees first,and don’t be misled,this signs like smiling, exposing your wrists, dressing in those screaming color clothes,will make it easy to tell which one of all the women,say for example are easily approachable.Then comes the communication bit,and this really gets annoying especially if the guy is talking and you are as well,it makes him think you are competing…leave alone the issue of men having to listen,they are passionate to let you know how they feel,what really makes them happy and here you are not interested,it really sucks,for now I think this article did a lot of good in explaining some of the things right especially about the smiling….good work sarah.



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